‘Oh, I can be very aggravating sometimes. Now, my idea is this. Ill-humour passes and hurts nobody. But if two people are ill-humoured, then each excites the other, and they say ever so much more than they mean. Let us make a compact never both to be ill-humoured at the same time. If _you_ are cross, then it is your turn, and I stand clear. If _I_ am cross, you let me work it off. When either hoists the danger-signal, the other is on guard. What do you think of that?’ ‘I think you are the funniest old boy—’ ‘Do you agree?’ ‘Yes, dear, of course I agree.’ ‘Article number one,’ said Frank, and scribbled upon his paper. ‘Your turn, now.’ ‘No, dear, I have not thought of anything.’ ‘Well, then, here is another point. Never take each other for granted.’ ‘What do you mean by that?’ ‘Never relax those attentions which one lover shows to another. Some husbands seem to forget that their wives are ladies. Some wives speak to their husbands with less courtesy and consideration than to any casual male visitor. They mean no harm, but they get into a slack way. We must not do that.’ ‘I don’t think we are likely to.’ ‘People get into it unconsciously. Pull me up sharply at the first sign.’ ‘Yes, sir, I will.’ ‘The next point that I have noted is an extension of the last. Let each strive to be worthy of the love of the other. People get slovenly and slipshoddy, as if it didn’t matter now that they were married. If each were very keen to please the other, that would not be so. How many women neglect their music after marriage.’ ‘My goodness, I haven’t practised for a week!’ cried Maude. ‘And their dress and their hair’—Maude’s hand flew up to her curls. ‘My darling, yours is just perfect. But you know how often a woman grows careless. “He will love me anyhow,” she says to herself, and perhaps she is right, but still it is not as it should be.’ ‘Why, Frank, I had no idea you knew so much.’ ‘I have heard my friends’ experiences.—And the man too: he should consider his wife’s feelings as much as he did his sweetheart’s. If she dislikes smoke, he should not smoke. He should not yawn in her presence. He should keep himself well-groomed and attractive. Look at that dirty cuff! I have no business to have it.’ ‘As if it could make any difference to me.’ ‘There now! That is what is so demoralising. You should stand out for the highest. When I came to you at St. Albans, I had not dirty cuffs.’ ‘You forgive me the music, Frank, and I’ll forgive you the cuff. But I agree to all you say. I think it is so wise and good. Now I’ve got something to add.’ ‘Good. What is it?’ ‘Each should take an interest in the other’s department.’ ‘Why, of course they should.’ ‘But it is not done.’ ‘Why naturally, dear, you take an interest in my City work.’ ‘Yes, sir, but do you take as keen an interest in my housekeeping?’ ‘Perhaps I have been a little thoughtless.’