A Garden of Girls; Or, Famous Schoolgirls of Former DaysConcannon, Thomas, Mrs.
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A Garden of Girls; Or, Famous Schoolgirls of Former Days
Concannon, Thomas, Mrs.
Catholic Church -- Education; Girls -- Biography; Women -- Education -- History
In her system of education, recreation played a very important part—in
the first place for its hygienic value. “Let the children run about in
the open air as much as possible,” she is always preaching to her nuns,
“nothing will help them so much to grow tall and strong.” But, more
important still, at no time more frequently than during recreation does a
girl get an opportunity of sacrificing her own inclinations in order to
give pleasure to others—and this is a lesson no woman can learn too early
for her own happiness, if for nothing else. Moreover, proficiency in
games of skill was important from a social point of view. Everybody—from
the Royal Family down—played those games, and a girl would feel herself
at a disadvantage afterwards if she had not attained some proficiency in
them. Games like “I love my love” had, according to Madame de Maintenon,
the combined merits of making a girl quick-witted, and giving her
subject for reflection. It seems to me that Madame de Maintenon showed
an even greater amount of commonsense than usual in the answer she gave
a nun, who wished to know whether she approved of the little ones making
rag-dolls at recreation, in the two-fold design of making them handy and
amusing them. “Anything is better than keeping them unoccupied,” is her
reply; “but you will succeed better in making them handy, by employing
them at something genuinely useful. Little girls,” continues this keen
student of girl nature, “usually love to be working, and you cannot
make them happier than by giving them something useful to do. Show them
how to do this right, and you are not only amusing them, but training
them.” I wish every mother would take that lesson to heart. A little
girl of three or four usually develops all of a sudden a great taste for
sweeping, and baking, and washing (washing, particularly). Now, instead
of sending her out to play, a wise mother will seize the opportunity
of showing the little one how to do these things right. I saw the
prettiest sight the other day; it was a laundry lesson to a tiny girl of
three-and-a-half. You never saw such a happy little girl as the pupil; no
game ever invented could hold half the interest for her, and I am bound
to say that she displayed more aptitude than many a poor girl who came
to the work after her ’teens. For my part, I am convinced that sewing,
and sweeping, and washing, are far better instruments for hand-and-eye
training than paper-folding, and mixing and modelling dough into cakes
and scones, while quite as interesting to children as modelling in clay,
has the educational advantage which anything woven into the genuine web
of life has over what is extraneous to it. And here I may be allowed to
remark that much of the educational unrest, so keenly diagnosed by Dr.
Starkie, is due to the fact that parents, the first and natural teachers,
have in these days a tendency to turn over their children, body and soul
to a professional class—shirking their own duties.
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