Brazil today and tomorrowJoyce, L. E. Elliott (Lilian Elwyn Elliott)
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Brazil today and tomorrow
Joyce, L. E. Elliott (Lilian Elwyn Elliott)
Brazil; Brazil -- Economic conditions
Married, she seems to resign herself contentedly to a purely domestic
life; one enters homes in Brazil whose handsome hostess entertains
delightfully, always exquisitely dressed, and sparkling with the big
diamonds that are considered the simple right of every woman in Brazil—
my washerwoman in Rio had a pair of brilliant earrings that cost three
contos of reis, representing her life’s savings—but this same smiling
hostess will never be seen outside her spacious home and gardens, except
upon the formal occasions when she is obliged to make an appearance in
public with her husband. She not infrequently displays a tendency to
_embonpoint_ early in life, the result of lack of exertion and the
eating of the extraordinary and delicious _doces_ (sweets and candies),
the creation of which is a special art of Brazilian women, but she does
not mind this at all, fearing a thin figure as the most terrible of
disasters in this land where the highest compliment paid to a woman is:
“How pretty and fat you are getting!” _Gorda_ and _bonita_ are indeed
interchangeable terms.
She accepts her destiny as a mother of many children, and generally
spoils them badly, at least in their infancy; the father is equally
indulgent. A harsh parent is a _rara avis_, and nothing excites popular
indignation in Brazil more than any story of hardship in which children
are concerned. Passionately devoted to her babies, the Brazilian mother
stays within her home, is the gracious sovereign of her circle, and
seems little disturbed when it expands notably. This expansion is likely
to happen if any relative either on her side or her husband’s falls upon
evil days; in that case he will come with his family and camp out until
fortune smiles again. There is no turning of the cold shoulder upon poor
relations in Brazil—they are welcome to a share of the family fare, and
to hammock space if beds are lacking in the case of poorer homes, secure
in the knowledge that they in turn will repay this good deed with
similar ones later on. The city centres have of course their more rigid
social laws, but in the less restricted life of smaller towns or
_fazendas_ there is often encountered another variation from the harsher
rules of some other lands: this is the placid acceptance into a home of
children who do not claim the mistress of the house as mother, but who
receive from her bed and board and a status little inferior to that of
her own babies, regular members of society. Lapses from social law occur
all over the world; they are punished to a greater or lesser degree
everywhere, but in some countries the innocent suffer more than the
guilty; unhappy and unwanted children bear a stigma against which they
rebel in vain. Brazilian opinion does not spare offenders, but it does
withhold any harsh hand from innocent children. Acknowledged and treated
with affection, they are given a chance in life together with the more
fortunate.
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