Dawn in darkest AfricaHarris, John H. (John Hobbis)
History
Dawn in darkest Africa
Harris, John H. (John Hobbis)
Africa, West; Africa, West -- Description and travel; Ethnology -- Africa, West; Slavery -- Africa, West
Into the sentiment of polygamy there is also the practical consideration
of offspring. No matter how plain the daughters, no matter how slightly
cicatrized they may be, no matter what imperfections the boys may have,
if they are the children of a much married man they are certain to make
“good matches.” The sons may be certain of securing the daughters of
chiefs no less famous than their father; if a girl, her dowry will not
be her intrinsic worth, but will be gauged likewise by the position and
possessions of her father.
[Sidenote: INHERITED WIVES]
It does not seem to be generally recognized that there is both voluntary
polygamy and in a very real sense obligatory polygamy. A man inherits
wives from his father or uncle, just as he inherits other possessions.
In most cases of course he gladly accepts his inheritance. This, I know,
is a revolting custom to the European, but to the African not merely
desirable but the only honourable future for his father’s wives. His
own mother reigns as a sort of dowager Queen in the household and keeps
order in the harem of her son. I have often discussed this feature with
the women themselves and find that invariably they regard any other
course with the utmost repugnance. Why, they say, should they suffer the
disgrace of being passed on to other husbands; what evil have they done
that their rightful husband should disown them and refuse to accept them
as his wives? his father loved and cherished them, and why should the son
disgrace his father’s name by refusing to follow in his steps!
In one or two cases Christian men have actually put away wives whom
they have inherited in this manner, but the women concerned have always
felt that the shadow of disgrace has fallen upon them and that they are
outcasts from the social life of the tribe.
This custom, like most extreme polygamous concomitants, finds its fullest
development in the upper reaches of the Congo river, but it is also
found practically throughout the whole of the Congo basin.
[Sidenote: CHRISTIANITY AND POLYGAMY]
The general attitude adopted by missionaries in West Africa is that
of rigidly excluding the husband of more than one wife from Church
membership, and this no doubt accounts for the apparent lack of success
which statistics seem at first sight to demonstrate. Almost every
missionary, however, will point out to the traveller, man after man who,
though not a member of his church is, he declares, with a regretful sigh,
“more of a Christian than the majority of our members.” The German Basel
Mission in the Cameroons excludes all polygamists from Church membership
and they have been fortunate in obtaining King Bell as a monogamist
member. In the “oil rivers” of the Niger, the same rigorous position is
taken up by the missionaries.
In not a few churches in Southern Nigeria, polygamists are certainly
admitted to membership of the churches. These men if not openly
polygamous are notoriously so in private life.
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