House and Home Papers: Seventh EditionStowe, Harriet Beecher
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House and Home Papers: Seventh Edition
Stowe, Harriet Beecher
Home economics
“‘Omitting further upon these points, there is a special feature
of your articles upon which we wish to address you. You seem as
yet (we do not know, of course, what you may hereafter do) to
speak only of homes whose conduct depends upon the help of
servants. Now your principles apply, as some of us well
conceive, to nearly all classes of society; yet most people, to
take an impressive hint, must have their portraits drawn out
more exactly. We therefore hope that you will give a reasonable
share of your attention to us who do not employ servants, so
that you may ease us of some of _our_ burdens, which, in spite
of common sense, we dare not throw off. For instance, we have
company,—a friend from afar, (perhaps wealthy,) or a minister,
or some other man of note. What do we do? Sit down and receive
our visitor with all good-will and the freedom of a home? No; we
(the lady of the house) flutter about to clear up things,
apologizing about this, that, and the other condition of
unpreparedness, and, having settled the visitor in the parlor,
set about marshalling the elements of a grand dinner or supper,
such as no person but a gourmand wants to sit down to, when at
home and comfortable; and in getting up this meal, clearing
away, and washing the dishes, we use up a good half of the time
which our guest spends with us. We have spread ourselves, and
shown him what we could do; but what a paltry, heart-sickening
achievement! Now, good Mr. Crowfield, thou friend of the robbed
and despairing, wilt thou not descend into our purgatorial
circle, and tell the world what thou hast seen there of doleful
remembrance? Tell us how we, who must do and desire to do our
own work, can show forth in our homes a homely, yet genial
hospitality, and entertain our guests without making a fuss and
hurly-burly, and seeming to be anxious for their sake about many
things, and spending too much time getting meals, as if eating
were the chief social pleasure. _Won’t_ you do this, Mr.
Crowfield?
“‘Yours beseechingly,
“R. H. A.’”
“That’s a good letter,” said Jenny.
“To be sure it is,” said I.
“And shall you answer it, papa?”
“In the very next ‘Atlantic,’ you may be sure I shall. The class that do
their own work are the strongest, the most numerous, and, taking one
thing with another, quite as well cultivated a class as any other. They
are the anomaly of our country,—the distinctive feature of the new
society that we are building up here; and if we are to accomplish our
national destiny, that class must increase rather than diminish. I shall
certainly do my best to answer the very sensible and pregnant questions
of that letter.”
Here Marianne shivered and drew up a shawl, and Jenny gaped; my wife
folded up the garment in which she had set the last stitch, and the
clock struck twelve.
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