Women -- Canada; Women -- Conduct of life; Women -- History; Women -- Social and moral questions; Women -- Social conditions
It would be perfectly delightful if our daughters might remain
innocent. They should have that privilege. Innocence belongs to
childhood and girlhood, but under present conditions, it is as
dangerous and foolish as level and unguarded railway crossings, or open
and unguarded trap doors. It is no pleasant task to have to tell a
joyous, sunny-hearted girl of fourteen or fifteen about the evils that
are in the world, but if you love her, you will do it! I would like to
see this work done by trained motherly and tactful women, in the
department of social welfare, paid by the school board. I know the
mothers should do it, but many mothers are ignorant, foolish, lax, and
certainly untrained. The mother's kindly counsel is the best, I know,
but you cannot always rely upon its being there. This is coming, too,
for public sentiment is being awakened to the evils of innocence.
I remember, twenty years ago, when Dr. Amelia Yeomans, of sainted
memory, published at her own expense, a little leaflet called "Warning
to Girls" and circulated it among girls who were working in public
places, what a storm of abuse arose. I have a copy of the little
tract, and it could be safely read in any mixed gathering today.
Ministers raged against it in the pulpit. I remember one brother who
was very emphatic in his denunciations who afterwards was put out of
the church for indecent conduct. Of course he wanted girls to remain
innocent--it suited his purpose.
If any person doubts that the society of the present day has been made
by men, and for men's advantage, let them look for a minute at the laws
which govern society. Society allows a man all privilege, all license,
all liberty, where women are concerned. He may lie to women, deceive
them--"all's fair in love and war"--he may break many a heart, and
blast many a fair name; that merely throws a glamour around him. "He's
a devil with women," they say, and it is no disadvantage in the
business or political world--where man dominates. But if a man is
dishonest in business or neglects to pay his gambling bills, he is down
and out. These are crimes against men--and therefore serious. This is
also a sore thought!
Then when men speak of these things, they throw the blame on women
themselves, showing thereby that the Garden of Eden story of Adam and
Eve and the apple, whether it be historically true or not, is true to
life. Quite Adam-like, they throw the blame on women, and say: "Women
like the man with a past. Women like to be lied to. Women do not
expect any man to be absolutely faithful to them, if he is pleasant.
The man who has the reputation of having been wild has a better chance
with women than the less attractive but absolutely moral man." What a
glorious thing it will be when men cease to speak for us, and cease to
tell us what we think, and let us speak for ourselves!
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