Marriage, As It Was, As It Is, and As It Should Be: A Plea for ReformBesant, Annie
Philosophy
Marriage, As It Was, As It Is, and As It Should Be: A Plea for Reform
Besant, Annie
Marriage -- Great Britain; Marriage law -- Great Britain
** "Boyer's resolution in this matter is the more
remarkable, as he has been urged and pestered to submit to
the forms of marriage. Grégoire, archbishop of Blois, and
who is well known for the perseverance and benevolence with
which he has, for a long series of years, advocated the
cause of the African race, wrote to the president of Hayti
in the most urgent terms, pressing upon him the virtue--the
necessity, for his salvation--of conforming to the sacrament
of marriage. To such a degree did the good old archbishop
carry his intermeddling officiousness, that when Boyer
mildly but firmly declined availing himself of his grace's
advice, a rupture was the consequence, greatly to the sorrow
of the president, who had ever entertained the greatest
respect and affection for his ecclesiastical friend."
"I imagine I hear from the clerical supporters of orthodoxy one general
burst of indignation at this sample of national profligacy; at this
contemning of the laws of God and man; at this escape from the Church's
ceremonies and the ecclesiastical blessing. I imagine I hear the
question sneeringly put, how long these same _respectable_ connections
commonly last, and how many dozen times they are changed in the course
of a year.
"Gently, my reverend friends! it is natural you should find it wrong
that men and women dispense with your services and curtail your fees in
this matter. But it is neither just nor proper, that because no
prayers are said, and no fees paid, you should denounce the custom as a
profligate one. Learn (as I did the other day from an intelligent
French gentleman who had remained some time on the island)--learn, that
_although there are ten times as many placed as married, yet there are
actually fewer separations among the former than divorces among the
latter_. If constancy, then, is to be the criterion of morality, these
same profligate unions--that is, unions unprayed-for by the priest and
unpaid for to him--are ten times as moral as the religion-sanctioned
institution of marriage.
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