Christian life; Free Church of England -- Sermons; Sermons, English; Young men
I believe that human character is homogeneous. It is of one substance
and quality in each particular person. Untold mischief has been done
by excusing the unpardonable in a man, on the ground that in some other
directions he is a good man. If he is ill to live with in the home, or
is hard and overreaching in his business, if he willingly makes life
more difficult than it need be for others, this is conduct which is
character; and when it is found with a profession of religion, let the
man, who thus outrages religion, be anathema. But at the same time,
young people should not conclude too hastily that a man is a hypocrite
because he does some things they cannot reconcile with his profession.
A man may be a very faulty man, and yet be a genuinely good man. His
goodness does not excuse his faults, nor do his faults destroy his
claim to goodness. I have known many a son judge a father very
harshly, and find himself in after years glad to find a place of
repentance. If you would have less reason later on to call yourself a
fool, be told that as yet you are not the best judges of what are but
faults on the surface of a man, and what are vices that are the man
himself. The truth about others will out sooner or later; what most
concerns you in the meanwhile is to know the truth about yourselves.
While always trying to think fairly, and even generously about others,
have you the right to think well of yourselves? "It is above all
things necessary," said the late President Garfield, "that in every
action I should have the good opinion of James Garfield; for to eat,
and drink, and sleep, and awake with one whom you despise, though that
one be yourself, is an intolerable thought, and what must it be as a
life experience?"
This is his way of saying that, as he puts it, above all things he must
be able to respect himself; and therefore there must be no double
existence, no secret sin, no side streets off the open thoroughfare of
his life, which he preferred to visit when it was dark--for, although
his neighbours and friends might not know about them, James Garfield
would know about them, and to be this creature whom you despise was
Garfield's idea of what every rightly ordered man should think of with
loathing. It is the word of wise old Polonius over again--
"This above all: to thine own self be true,
And it must follow, as the night the day,
Thou canst not then be false to any man."
Public-domain text, read in full here on John Shaqi.
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