18. Discretion should be exercised in introducing persons. Of two gentlemen who are introduced, if one is superior in rank or age, he is the one to whom the introduction should be made. Of two social equals, if one be a stranger in the place, his name should be mentioned first. 19. In general the simpler the introduction the better. 20. Before introducing a gentleman to a lady, remember that she is entitled to hold you responsible for the acquaintance. The lady is the one to whom the gentleman is presented, which may be done thus: "Miss A, permit me to introduce to you my friend, Mr. B."; or, "Miss A., allow me to introduce Mr. B." If mutual and near friends of yours, say simply, "Miss A., Mr. B." 21. Receive the introduction with a slight bow and the acknowledgment, "Miss A., I am happy to make your acquaintance"; or, "Mr. B., I am pleased to meet you." There is no reason why such stereotyped expressions should always be used, but something similar is expected. Do not extend the hand usually. 22. A true lady will avoid familiarity in her deportment towards gentlemen. A young lady should not permit her gentlemen friends to address her by her home name, and the reverse is true. Use the title Miss and Mr. respectively. 23. Ladies should be frank and cordial towards their lady friends, but never gushing. 24. Should you meet a friend twice or oftener, at short intervals, it is polite to bow slightly each time after the first. 25. A lady on meeting a gentleman with whom she has slight acquaintance will make a medium bow--neither too decided nor too slight or stiff. 26. For a gentleman to take a young lady's arm, is to intimate that she is feeble, and young ladies resent the mode. 27. If a young lady desires to visit any public place where she expects to meet a gentleman acquaintance, she should have a chaperon to accompany her, a person of mature years when possible, and never a giddy girl. 28. A lady should not ask a gentleman to walk with her. * * * * * {52} [Illustration] A COMPLETE ETIQUETTE IN A FEW PRACTICAL RULES. _1. If you desire to be respected, keep clean. The finest attire and decorations will add nothing to the appearance or beauty of an untidy person._ _2. Clean clothing, clean skin, clean hands, including the nails, and clean, white teeth, are a requisite passport for good society._ _3. A bad breath should be carefully remedied, whether it proceeds from the stomach or from decayed teeth._ _4. To pick the nose, finger about the ears, or scratch the head or any other part of the person, in company, is decidedly vulgar._ _5. When you call at any private residence, do not neglect to clean your shoes thoroughly._ _6. A gentleman should always remove his hat in the presence of ladies, except out of doors, and then he should lift or touch his hat in salutation. On meeting a lady a well-bred gentleman will always lift his hat._