I believe that the more external and obvious handicaps to success are
much less serious than is ordinarily supposed. Such traits as deafness,
lameness, bad eyesight, ugliness, stammering, extreme shyness, and the
like, are often detrimental only in so far as they are allowed to
confine or intimidate the spirit, and will seldom prevent a courageous
person from accomplishing what is otherwise within his ability. They are
by no means such fatal obstacles to intercourse as they may appear. The
very fact that one has the heart to face the world on the open road
regardless of an obvious handicap may make him interesting, so that
while he may have to suffer an occasional rebuff from the vulgar, the
men of real significance will be all the more apt to respect and attend
to him.
And the effect on his own character may well be to define and
concentrate it, and give it an energy and discipline it would otherwise
have lacked. Those apparently fortunate people who have many facilities,
to whom every road seems open, are hardly to be envied; they seldom go
far in any direction. Except in some such way as this, how can we
explain the cases in which the totally blind, for example, have
succeeded in careers like medicine, natural science, or statesmanship? I
judge that they do it not because of superhuman abilities, but because
they have the hardihood to act on the view that the spirit of a man and
not his organs is the essential thing.
The most harmful thing about handicaps, especially in the children of
well-to-do parents, is often the injudicious commiseration and
sheltering they are apt to induce. This may well go so far as to deprive
such children of natural contact with reality and prevent their learning
betimes just what they have to contend with and how to overcome it.
The natural test of a man’s ability is to give him a novel task and
observe how he goes about it. If he is able he will commonly begin by
getting all the information within reach, reflecting upon it and making
a plan. It should be a bold plan, and yet not rash or impracticable,
though it may seem so; based in fact upon a just view of the conditions,
and especially of the personalities, with which he has to deal. It will
be, emphatically, his own plan, and an able man will generally prefer to
keep it to himself, because he knows that he may have to change it, and
that discussion may raise obstacles.
In carrying it out he will show a mixture of resolution and
adaptability; learning by experience, modifying his plan in details, but
in the main sticking to it even when he does not clearly see his way,
because he believes that courage and persistence find good luck. He
“plays the game” to the end, and if he fails he has too strong a sense
of the experimental character of life to be much discouraged.
CHAPTER X
SUCCESS AND MORALITY
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