The Book of Nature: Containing information for young people who think of getting married, on the philosophy of procreation and sexual intercourse, showing how to prevent conception and to avoid child-bearing: also, rules for management during labor and child-birthAshton, James, active 1875-1876
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The Book of Nature: Containing information for young people who think of getting married, on the philosophy of procreation and sexual intercourse, showing how to prevent conception and to avoid child-bearing: also, rules for management during labor and child-birth
Ashton, James, active 1875-1876
Contraception; Marriage; Pregnancy; Sex
distinguished physicians—American, French and German—but there is no help
for him. All agree that relief is impossible, but that he may live for
many years an imbecile, palsied man.
To sum up: If you wish to maintain your intellectual faculties intact—to
enjoy good health—to be cheerful in the decline of life—to keep your
strength, your imagination, your memory, and your eye-sight unimpaired,
refrain from too frequent intercourse with women. Once a week is
quite often enough for this indulgence, and more than twice a week is
positively hurtful. Some men may sneer at this advice, perhaps; but
to such we say, look back upon your life. Are you as perfect, both
physically and intellectually, as you would have been had you curbed your
sexual desires?
POSITION DURING SEXUAL INTERCOURSE.
There is one phase of sexual matters that physiological writers seldom
allude to, but which should be understood by married people, viz.:
the position of their bodies during the nuptial act. Any unnatural
performance of this act is apt to impair the health of the female,
and many women have been seriously injured and rendered miserable for
life by the beastliness of their husbands in this respect. Unnatural
positions will cause derangements and bearing down of the womb, produce
fluor albus, or whites, and sometimes will originate tumors and fungi in
the private parts. A woman of delicate mould and constitution might be
fatally injured in this manner; and no female, however robust, can enjoy
sexual intercourse except in the position intended by Nature. For a full
and perfect enjoyment of sexual pleasures, there must be first a mutual
fondness or sentimental feeling, called love. Where this does not exist,
the married pair should, in their associations, endeavor to be in as good
humor as possible, and to tolerate each other’s caresses with the hope
that love may grow between them. Marriages have occurred where the bride
felt an antipathy almost amounting to disgust towards the embraces of
her husband, but afterwards, on a close intimacy and free acquaintance,
became not only reconciled, but really fond of him. Delicacy and
watchfulness on the part of the husband will often enable him to make
himself agreeable to a woman who at first has no sympathy with him
whatever. From the peculiar organization of females, there are times when
a husband’s caresses may be unpleasant and irksome even to a loving wife:
if he is reasonable and consciencious, he will not fail to observe this,
and will abstain from intruding on her privicy on such occasions.
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