The Domestic Life of Thomas Jefferson Compiled From Family Letters and ReminiscencesRandolph, Sarah N. (Sarah Nicholas)
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The Domestic Life of Thomas Jefferson Compiled From Family Letters and Reminiscences
Randolph, Sarah N. (Sarah Nicholas)
Jefferson, Thomas, 1743-1826; Presidents -- United States -- Biography
My dear Patsy--After four days' journey, I arrived here without
any accident, and in as good health as when I left Philadelphia.
The conviction that you would be more improved in the situation
I have placed you than if still with me, has solaced me on my
parting with you, which my love for you has rendered a difficult
thing. The acquirements which I hope you will make under the
tutors I have provided for you will render you more worthy of
my love; and if they can not increase it, they will prevent
its diminution. Consider the good lady who has taken you under
her roof, who has undertaken to see that you perform all your
exercises, and to admonish you in all those wanderings from what
is right or what is clever, to which your inexperience would
expose you: consider her, I say, as your mother, as the only
person to whom, since the loss with which Heaven has pleased to
afflict you, you can now look up; and that her displeasure or
disapprobation, on any occasion, will be an immense misfortune,
which should you be so unhappy as to incur by any unguarded
act, think no concession too much to regain her good-will. With
respect to the distribution of your time, the following is what
I should approve:
From 8 to 10, practice music.
From 10 to 1, dance one day and draw another.
From 1 to 2, draw on the day you dance, and write a letter next
day.
From 3 to 4, read French.
From 4 to 5, exercise yourself in music.
From 5 till bed-time, read English, write, etc.
Communicate this plan to Mrs. Hopkinson, and if she approves of
it, pursue it. As long as Mrs. Trist remains in Philadelphia,
cultivate her affection. She has been a valuable friend to you,
and her good sense and good heart make her valued by all who
know her, and by nobody on earth more than me. I expect you
will write me by every post. Inform me what books you read,
what tunes you learn, and inclose me your best copy of every
lesson in drawing. Write also one letter a week either to your
Aunt Eppes, your Aunt Skipwith, your Aunt Carr, or the little
lady[24] from whom I now inclose a letter, and always put the
letter you so write under cover to me. Take care that you never
spell a word wrong. Always before you write a word, consider
how it is spelt, and, if you do not remember it, turn to a
dictionary. It produces great praise to a lady to spell well. I
have placed my happiness on seeing you good and accomplished;
and no distress which this world can now bring on me would equal
that of your disappointing my hopes. If you love me, then strive
to be good under every situation and to all living creatures,
and to acquire those accomplishments which I have put in your
power, and which will go far towards ensuring you the warmest
love of your affectionate father,
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