The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternity — John Shaqi
The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternityWright, Henry Clarke
Philosophy
The unwelcome child : $b Or, The crime of an undesigned and undesired maternity
Wright, Henry Clarke
Abortion; Sexual ethics
“Though overwhelmed with the greatness of her responsibilities, and an
undefined dread of physical suffering, she was determined not to
appear weak, but bravely to meet and bear the burden imposed upon her.
Her husband was absent when the trial hour came; but when he returned,
he took his babe and wife to his bosom with pride and joy, though its
gestational development had, apparently, scarcely given him an anxious
thought.
“My friend’s future looked bright. She did not see or understand the
fact, that she was to continue to develop the germs of human beings
into life, with little sustaining help from the father, whose caresses
generally ended in exhausting her vital powers by passional
indulgence. She did not complain, but rather rejoiced, as she saw her
other powers of attraction to her husband depart one by one, that she
was so organized as to be able to meet what she knew he considered an
essential want of his nature.
“Eleven years passed, at which time she gave birth to her sixth child.
She was a devoted mother, of a joyous spirit, and possessed of
wonderful elasticity. But woman cannot be entirely happy in maternity
alone, without the presence and sustaining power of her husband. If
she is a true wife, she desires to be more to her husband than merely
the mother of his children.
“Her husband made for her a beautiful material home, and seemed happy
when with her; but he was much away; he sought other pleasures, social
and intellectual, in which she could not participate;—she must stay at
home, alone, with her children. Little did he know the trials of
patience and strength in his wife, in being compelled to bear the
responsibility of the health and training of her little ones alone.
The world called her a happy wife, and she felt that she ought to be
so; but a dark cloud was coming over her once joyous spirit. She began
to realize the fact, so fatal to a wife’s happiness, that her husband
did not feel her to be his equal, and a fitting companion to meet his
social and intellectual necessities. When he brought home a friend,
she listened to conversations and discussions in which she could not
participate. She felt keenly the growing distance between them, and
she knew too well how it had come about.
“She quietly made up her mind to have no more children. How did she
propose to bring it about? Not by asking her husband to deny himself
his accustomed indulgence; no, that, she thought, would be to cut
herself off from her strongest hold on his affection and confidence,
and to sever the last link of the chain that bound them together. She
did not expect that any precaution would enable her to escape
conception. She brought herself to do what was most repugnant to her
nature, and which, as she felt, would destroy her self-respect, and
make her, in her own estimation, a degraded woman, namely, TO PROCURE
ABORTION.
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