When it comes to the companionship, however, it is another matter.
Here is something only the mother can give. It is “up to her” to
study the ins and outs of her child’s nature; to know where and how
to bring pressure in order to counterbalance another influence; to
make herself so one with him that he turns to her instinctively, with
complete confidence in her ability to meet his need; to be so close
in his intimacy that she grasps his thoughts almost before they are
formulated; to persuade him unconsciously to rely upon her judgment,
her companionship, her understanding to an extent that will hold him in
temptation and move him to range himself on the side of right against
wrong.
Of course it is not always easy. The mother does not resign her own
individuality by the mere fact of motherhood; she does not lay aside
her special interests when she takes up those of her child. Yet if she
lets him suspect that anything comes ahead of his well-being in her
heart she makes a fatal mistake; she starts the rift between them which
may widen into a chasm not to be bridged by all her agony and tears.
It may sometimes be hard to yield up one’s own will and preference in
this way, and yet the mother gets her pay as she goes along, and her
labor brings its reward in a fashion unequaled in any other vocation in
the universe. Nothing in the whole world pays so well as being a mother!
THE END
Transcriber's Notes:
Italics are shown thus: _sloping_.
Variations in spelling and hyphenation are retained.
Perceived typographical errors have been changed.
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