A Commonplace Book of Thoughts, Memories, and Fancies.: 2nd ed.Jameson, Mrs. (Anna)
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A Commonplace Book of Thoughts, Memories, and Fancies.: 2nd ed.
Jameson, Mrs. (Anna)
Art and literature; Commonplace books; Ethics; Quotations
The most dangerous man to a woman is a man of high intellectual
endowments morally perverted; for in a woman’s nature there is such a
necessity to approve where she admires, and to believe where she
loves,—a devotion compounded of love and faith is so much a part of her
being,—that while the instincts remain true and the feelings
uncorrupted, the conscience and the will may both be led far astray.
Thus fell “our general mother,”—type of her sex,—overpowered, rather
than deceived, by the colossal intellect,—half serpent, half angelic.
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Coleridge speaks, and with a just indignant scorn, of those who consider
chastity as if it were a _thing_—a thing which might be lost or kept by
external accident—a thing of which one might be robbed, instead of a
state of being. According to law and custom, the chastity of Woman is as
the property of Man, to whom she is accountable for it, rather than to
God and her own conscience. Whatever people may say, such is the common,
the social, the legal view of the case. It is a remnant of Oriental
barbarism. It tends to much vice, or, at the best, to a low standard of
morality, in both sexes. This idea of property in the woman survives
still in our present social state, particularly among the lower orders,
and is one cause of the ill treatment of wives. All those who are
particularly acquainted with the manners and condition of the people
will testify to this; namely, that when a child or any weaker individual
is ill treated, those standing by will interfere and protect the victim;
but if the sufferer be _the wife_ of the oppressor, it is a point of
etiquette to look on, to take no part in the fray, and to leave the
brute man to do what he likes “with his own.” Even the victim herself,
if she be not pummelled to death, frequently deprecates such an
interference with the dignity and the rights of her owner. Like the poor
woman in the “Médecin malgré lui:”—“Voyez un peu cet impertinent qui
vent empêcher les maris de battre leurs femmes!—et si je veux qu’il me
batte, moi?”—and so ends by giving her defender a box on the ear.
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“Au milieu de tous les obstacles que la nature et la société out semés
sur les pas de la femme, la seule condition de repos pour elle est de
s’entourer de barrières que les passions ne puissent franchir; incapable
de s’approprier l’existence, elle est toujours semblable a la Chinoise
dont les pieds ont été mutilés et pour laquelle toute liberté est un
leurre, toute espace ouverte une cause de chute. En attendant que
l’éducation ait donné aux femmes leur véritable place, malheur à celles
qui brisent les lisses accoutumées! pour elles l’indépendance ne sera,
comme la gloire, qu’un deuil éclatant du bonheur!”—_B. Constant._
This also is one of those common-places of well-sounding eloquence, in
which a fallacy is so wrapt up in words we have to dig it out. If this
be true, it is true only so long as you compress the feet and compress
the intellect,—no longer.
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