A Day in Old Athens; a Picture of Athenian LifeDavis, William Stearns
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A Day in Old Athens; a Picture of Athenian Life
Davis, William Stearns
Athens (Greece) -- Social life and customs
44. The Desirability of Children in Athens.—Besides the oversight of
the slaves the Athenian matron has naturally the care of the children.
A childless home is one of the greatest of calamities. It means a
solitary old age, and still worse, the dying out of the family and the
worship of the family gods. There is just enough of the old
superstitious “ancestor worship” left in Athens to make one shudder at
the idea of leaving the “deified ancestor” without any descendants to
keep up the simple sacrifices to their memory. Besides, public opinion
condemns the childless home as not contributing to the perpetuation of
the city. How Corinth, Thebes, or Sparta will rejoice, if it is plain
that Athens is destroying herself by race suicide! So at least _one_
son will be very welcome. His advent is a day of happiness for the
father, of still greater satisfaction for the young mother.
45. The Exposure of Infants.—How many more children are welcome
depends on circumstances. Children are expensive luxuries. They must
be properly educated and even the boys must be left a fair fortune.[*]
The girls must always have good dowries, or they cannot “marry
according to their station.” Public opinion, as well as the law,
allows a father (at least if he has one or two children already) to
exercise a privilege, which later ages will pronounce one of the
foulest blots on Greek civilization. After the birth of a child there
is an anxious day or two for the poor young mother and the faithful
nurses.—Will he ‘nourish’ it? Are there boys enough already? Is the
disappointment over the birth of a daughter too keen? Does he dread
the curtailment in family luxuries necessary to save up for an
allowance or dowry for the little stranger? Or does the child promise
to be puny, sickly, or even deformed? If any of these arguments carry
adverse weight, there is no appeal against the father’s decision. He
has until the fifth day after the birth to decide. In the interval he
can utter the fatal words, “Expose it!” The helpless creature is then
put in a rude cradle, or more often merely in a shallow pot and placed
near some public place; _e.g._ the corner of the Agora, or near a
gymnasium, or the entrance to a temple. Here it will soon die of mere
hunger and neglect unless rescued. If the reasons for exposure are
evident physical defects, no one will touch it. Death is certain. If,
however, it seems healthy and well formed, it is likely to be taken up
and cared for. Not out of pure compassion, however. The harpies who
raise slaves and especially slave girls, for no honest purposes, are
prompt to pounce upon any promising looking infant. They will rear it
as a speculation; if it is a girl, they will teach it to sing, dance,
play. The race of light women in Athens is thus really recruited from
the very best families. The fact is well known, but it is constantly
winked at. Aristophanes, the comic poet, speaks of this exposure of
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