A girl's life eighty years ago : $b Selections from the letters of Eliza Southgate BowneBowne, Eliza Southgate
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A girl's life eighty years ago : $b Selections from the letters of Eliza Southgate Bowne
Bowne, Eliza Southgate
Bowne, Eliza Southgate, 1783-1809; United States -- Social life and customs -- 1783-1865
Women have more fancy, more lively imaginations than men. That is easily
accounted for: a person of correct judgment and accurate discernment
will never have that flow of ideas which one of a different character
might,—every object has not the power to introduce into his mind such a
variety of ideas, he rejects all but those closely connected with it. On
the other hand, a person of small discernment will receive every idea
that arises in the mind, making no distinction between those nearly
related and those more distant, they are all equally welcome, and
consequently such a mind abounds with fanciful, out-of-the-way ideas.
Women have more imagination, more sprightliness, because they have less
discernment. I never was of opinion that the pursuits of the sexes ought
to be the same; on the contrary, I believe it would be destructive to
happiness, there would a degree of rivalry exist, incompatible with the
harmony we wish to establish. I have ever thought it necessary that each
should have a separate sphere of action,—in such a case there could be
no clashing unless one or the other should leap their respective bounds.
Yet to cultivate the qualities with which we are endowed can never be
called infringing the prerogatives of man. Why, my dear Cousin, were we
furnished with such powers, unless the improvement of them would conduce
to the happiness of society? Do you suppose the mind of woman the only
work of God that was “made in vain.” The cultivation of the powers we
possess, I have ever thought a privilege (or I may say duty) that
belonged to the human species, and not man’s exclusive prerogative. Far
from destroying the harmony that ought to subsist, it would fix it on a
foundation that would not totter at every jar. Women would be under the
same degree of subordination that they now are; enlighten and expand
their minds, and they would perceive the necessity of such a regulation
to preserve the order and happiness of society. Yet you require that
their conduct should be always guided by that reason which you refuse
them the power of exercising. I know it is generally thought that in
such a case women would assume the right of commanding. But I see no
foundation for such a supposition,—not a blind submission to the will of
another which neither honor nor reason dictates. It would be criminal in
such a case to submit, for we are under a prior engagement to conduct in
all things according to the dictates of reason. I had rather be the
meanest reptile that creeps the earth, or cast upon the wide world to
suffer all the ills “that flesh is heir to,” than live a slave to the
despotic will of another.
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