Two persons are married. The myrmidons of the Minotaur, young and old,
have usually the politeness to leave the bride and bridegroom entirely
to themselves at first. They look upon the husband as an artisan, whose
business it is to trim, polish, cut into facets and mount the diamond,
which is to pass from hand to hand in order to be admired all around.
Moreover, the aspect of a young married couple much taken with each
other always rejoices the heart of those among the celibates who are
known as _roues_; they take good care not to disturb the excitement by
which society is to be profited; they also know that heavy showers to
not last long. They therefore keep quiet; they watch, and wait, with
incredible vigilance, for the moment when bride and groom begin to
weary of the seventh heaven.
The tact with which celibates discover the moment when the breeze
begins to rise in a new home can only be compared to the indifference
of those husbands for whom the Red-moon rises. There is, even in
intrigue, a moment of ripeness which must be waited for. The great man
is he who anticipates the outcome of certain circumstances. Men of
fifty-two, whom we have represented as being so dangerous, know very
well, for example, that any man who offers himself as lover to a woman
and is haughtily rejected, will be received with open arms three months
afterwards. But it may be truly said that in general married people in
betraying their indifference towards each other show the same naivete
with which they first betrayed their love. At the time when you are
traversing with madame the ravishing fields of the seventh heaven—where
according to their temperament, newly married people remain encamped
for a longer or shorter time, as the preceding Meditation has
proved—you go little or not at all into society. Happy as you are in
your home, if you do go abroad, it will be for the purpose of making up
a choice party and visiting the theatre, the country, etc. From the
moment you the newly wedded make your appearance in the world again,
you and your bride together, or separately, and are seen to be
attentive to each other at balls, at parties, at all the empty
amusements created to escape the void of an unsatisfied heart, the
celibates discern that your wife comes there in search of distraction;
her home, her husband are therefore wearisome to her.
At this point the celibate knows that half of the journey is
accomplished. At this point you are on the eve of being minotaurized,
and your wife is likely to become inconsistent; which means that she is
on the contrary likely to prove very consistent in her conduct, that
she has reasoned it out with astonishing sagacity and that you are
likely very soon to smell fire. From that moment she will not in
appearance fail in any of her duties, and will put on the colors of
that virtue in which she is most lacking. Said Crebillon:
“Alas!
Is it right to be heir of the man who we slay?”
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