Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
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Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
As already mentioned, the growth of things is one of the most
stimulating of childish puzzles. Led no doubt by what others tell him, a
child finds that things are in general made bigger by additions from
without, and his earliest conception of growth is, I think, that of such
addition. Thus, plants are made to grow, that is, swell out, by the
rain. The idea that the growth or expansion of animals comes from eating
is easily reached by the childish intelligence, and, as we know, nurses
and parents have a way of recommending the less attractive sorts of diet
by telling children that they will make them grow. The idea that the sun
makes us grow, often suggested by parents (who may be ignorant of the
fact that growth _is_ more rapid in the summer than in the winter), is
probably interpreted by the analogy of an infusion of something into the
body.
A number of children, I have found, have the queer notion that towards
the end of life there is a process of shrinkage. Old people are supposed
to become little again. One of the American children referred to, a
little girl of three, once said to her mother: "When I am a big girl and
you are a little girl I shall whip you just as you whipped me now". At
first one is almost disposed to think that this child must have heard of
Mr. Anstey's amusing story, _Vice Versâ_. Yet I have collected a number
of similar observations. For example, a little boy that I know, when
about three and a half years old, used often to say to his mother with
perfect seriousness of manner: "When I am big then you will be little,
then I will carry you about and dress you and put you to sleep". And one
little girl asked about some old person of her acquaintance: "When will
she begin to get small?" Another little girl asked her grown-up cousin
who was reading to her something about an old woman: "Do people turn
back into babies when they get quite old?"
Another interesting fact to be noted here is that some children firmly
believe that persons after dying and going to heaven will return to
earth as little children. An American lady writes to me that two of her
boys found their way independently of each other to this idea. Thus one
of them speaking of a playmate who had been drowned, and who was now, he
was told, in heaven, remarked: "Then God will let him come back and be a
baby again".
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