Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
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Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
Yet children who reflect soon find out that dream-objects do not belong
to the common world, in the sights of which we all partake. Another
theory has then to be found. I believe that many children, especially
those who, being imaginative when awake, make their fairy-stories and
their own romancings very real to themselves, and who, as a result of
this, are wont to return to them in their dreams, are inclined to
identify dreamland and fairyland. If they want to see their "fairies" by
day they will shut their eyes; and so the idea may naturally enough
occur to them that when closing their eyes for sleep they are going to
see the beloved fairies again, and for a longer time. Other ideas about
dreams also occur among children. A gentleman tells me that when a child
he used to think that dreaming, though different from actual seeing,
was yet more than having one's own individual fancies; on dreaming, for
example, that he had met certain people he supposed that each of these
must have had a dream in which he had met him. This, it may be
remembered, is very much the fanciful idea of dreaming which Mr. Du
Maurier works out in his pretty story _Peter Ibbetson_.
There is some evidence to show that a thoughtful child, when he begins
to grasp the truth that dreams are only unreal phantasms, becomes
confused, and wonders whether the things too which we see when waking
are not unreal. Here is a quaint example of this transference of
childish doubt from dreamland to the every-day world. A little boy five
years old asked his teacher: "Wouldn't it be funny if we were dreaming?"
and being satisfied by the reply elicited that it would be funny, he
continued more explicitly: "Supposing every one in the whole world were
dreaming, wouldn't _that_ be funny? They might be, mightn't they?"
Receiving a slightly encouraging, "Perhaps they might," he wound up his
argument in this fashion: "Yes, but I don't think we are--I'm sure we
are not. Perhaps we should wake up and find _every one_ gone away." This
is dark enough, but suggests, I think, that doubt as to the bright
beautiful forms seen in sleep is casting its shadow on the real world,
on the precious certainty of the presence of those we love. A little
girl about six and a half years old being instructed by her father as to
the making of the world remarked: "Perhaps the world's a fancy". The
doubt in this case too was, one may conjecture, led up to by the loss of
faith in dreamland.
_Birth and Growth._
We may now pass to some of children's characteristic thoughts about
living things, more particularly human beings, and the familiar domestic
animals. The most interesting of these, I think, are those respecting
growth and birth.
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