Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matterSully, James
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Children's Ways: Being selections from the author's "Studies of childhood," with some additional matter
Sully, James
Child development; Child psychology
Another difficulty is the grasping of great lengths of time. A child is
apt to exaggerate greatly a short period. The first morning at school
has seemed an eternity to some who have carried the recollection of it
into middle life. Even the minutes when, as Mrs. Maynell writes, "your
mother's visitor held you so long at his knee, while he talked to her
the excited gabble of the grown-up," may have seemed very, very big.
Possibly this sense of the immeasurable length of certain experiences of
childhood gives to the child's sense of past time something of an aching
vastness which older people can hardly understand. Do not the words
"long, long ago," when we use them in telling a child a story, still
carry with them for our ears a strangely far-off sound?
Again, children find it hard to map out the divisions of time, and to
see the relations of one period to another. One little boy about five
and a half finding that something had happened before his father was
born, asked whether it was in the time of the Romans. His historical
perspective had, not unnaturally perhaps, set the "time of the Romans"
just before the life of the oldest of his household.
_The Supernatural World._
A child's first acquaintance with the supernatural is frequently made
through the medium of fairy-story or other fiction. And, as has been
suggested in an earlier chapter, he can put a germ of thought into the
tradition of a fairy-world. It is, however, when something in the shape
of theological instruction supervenes that the supernatural becomes a
problem for the young intellect. He is told of these mysterious things
as of certainties, and in the measure in which he is a thinker, he will
try to get a clear intelligent view of things.
Like the beginning of life, its ending is one of the recurring puzzles
of early days. A child appears better able to imagine others dying than
himself; this seems to be suggested by a story published by Stanley Hall
of a little girl who from six to nine feared that all other people would
die one by one, and that she would be left alone on the earth.
The first recoil from an inscrutable mystery soon begins to give place
to a feeling of dread. A little girl of three and a half years asked
her mother to put a great stone on her head, because she did not want to
die. She was asked how a stone would prevent it, and answered with
perfect childish logic: "Because I shall not grow tall if you put a
great stone on my head; and people who grow tall get old and then die".
The first way of regarding death seems to be as a temporary state like
sleep, which it so closely resembles. A little boy of two and a half
years, on hearing from his mother of the death of a lady friend, at once
asked: "Will Mrs. P. still be dead when we go back to London?"
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