complication were removed, as it could be, we should probably find that
the adjustment of marriage to shifting ideals and conditions would come
about in a natural and advantageous manner, as adjustments usually do
when vexing and hampering conditions are removed. The question will
settle itself in any case. Just how, no one, of course, can tell; but
however revolutionary the adaptation to new conditions may be, it will
not _seem_ revolutionary to the people of the future because “the minds
of men will be fitted to it.” This is an all-important fact, and one
that is too little respected; for the desire to enforce our own moral
and spiritual criteria upon posterity is quite as strong as the desire
to enforce them upon contemporaries. It is a desire which finds a large
measure of fulfilment--where is the society which does not struggle
along under a dead weight of tradition and law inherited from its
grandfathers? All political and religious systems have their root and
their strength in the innate conservatism of the human mind, and its
intense fear of autonomy. Because of this conservatism, people never
move towards revolution; they are pushed towards it by intolerable
injustices in the economic and social order under which they live.
There were, and are, such injustices in the laws and customs of the
Christian world governing marriage and the relations of the sexes;
hence the changes which have already begun, and may conceivably proceed
until they shall prove as far-reaching as those by which marriage in
the past was transformed from an instinctive habit into an institution
subject to regulation by everyone except the two people most intimately
concerned.
FOOTNOTES:
[10] Westermarck defines it as “a more or less durable connexion
between male and female lasting beyond the mere act of propagation till
after the birth of the offspring.”
[11] E. C. Parsons: “The Family.”
[12] It is interesting in this connexion to note that in post-war
England, where the thousands of unemployed workers constitute a heavy
drain on the public purse and a baffling political problem, it has
been made lawful to sell devices for birth-control. One now sees these
devices conspicuously displayed in druggists’ windows.
[13] In Maryland fornication is not a crime, although it may entitle
a husband to divorce if he did not know of it at the time of the
marriage. Adultery is punishable by a fine of ten dollars.
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