Dorothy Payne, Quakeress: A Side-Light Upon the Career of 'Dolly' MadisonBarnard, Ella K. (Ella Kent)
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Dorothy Payne, Quakeress: A Side-Light Upon the Career of 'Dolly' Madison
Barnard, Ella K. (Ella Kent)
Madison, Dolley, 1768-1849
Plantation life, with its roomy surroundings, has given many finely
developed characters. The oak, the chestnut and the tulip tree of the
forest tower higher, because of close contact, perhaps, but in shape
differ little from each other. Planted in the open, each one hastens to
assume its natural form, and becomes symmetrical in a way with which the
other cannot vie. So, too, is it with human life, in country and in
city. Flaws there doubtless are in both, and our noblest characters
ofttimes adorn themselves with some pet whimsicality or foible for
which, like the dwellers of Cranford, they are even more dearly loved.
"Life is a gift from divine Love," says the new teaching, and "why
divide it up into little bits, and think that little by little we are
using it up, and that soon we shall come to an end." "Ignore birthdays,
which only carry suggestions of age and ugliness, and remember that
_life_ and _goodness_ are immortal." Such doctrine as this could it have
been spoken in Dolly's day, would doubtless have voiced her feelings,
and been of greatest comfort. For birthdays she greatly preferred to
forget, and was apt indeed, to do so. Why should the dear old lady have
been reminded so often, of the many milestones past, and the very few
ahead?
FROM THE COLLECTION OF SIMON GRATZ, PHILADELPHIA.
I often desire to see you when I cannot, but now there is a new
reason for the liveliness of my wishes--it is to rectify the
mistake of a moment, not "of a night." You enquired last evening if
I was not one year older than your mother. I answered yes, when I
ought to have said several--In truth I could then only remember my
first acquaintance with that beloved relation, when all the world
seemed young to us.--
She was about seventeen, and I turned of twenty--this was my
calculation before I slept last night--and, being anxious to
disavow the affection of curtailing some precious years, I will
give you a copy of the notice of me in our family Bible, ... and
having been all my life in the world, it gives me the advantage
sometimes of the nominal advance to eighty. I know you will excuse
this little sally on your time because with all your other great
qualities you have the most reasonable and indulgent temper.
Your friend and cos.,
Jan^y 29th 1839 D. P. Madison.
To The Hon^{ble} W. C. Preston.
Darwin has said that a man's worth is best measured by the duration of
his friendships. Dolly's friendships were life-long. She never allowed
the friends of more recent date, no matter who they might be, to crowd
into the background the friends of her youth. In the days of her
prosperity, rich and poor were alike welcomed at her lavish board.
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