Earl Hubert's Daughter: The Polishing of the Pearl - A Tale of the 13th CenturyHolt, Emily Sarah
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Earl Hubert's Daughter: The Polishing of the Pearl - A Tale of the 13th Century
Holt, Emily Sarah
England -- Social life and customs -- 1066-1485 -- Fiction; Historical fiction
"And, Lady, will you of your grace plead for us with my Lord and
father?" said Margaret in a coaxing tone at last.
"Oh, leave it all to me," replied her mother. "I will manage him into
it. Never tell a man anything, my dove, if thou wouldst have him do it.
Men are such obstinate, perverse creatures, that as often as not they
will just go the other way out of sheer wilfulness. Thou must always
contrive to manage them into it."
Margaret, who had inherited her father's honesty with her mother's
amiability, was rather puzzled by this counsel.
"But how do you manage them?" said she.
"There is an art in that, my dear. It takes brains. Different men
require very different kinds of management. Now thy father is one who
will generally consent to a thing when it is done, though he would not
if it were suggested to him at first. He rather likes his own way;
still, he is very good when he is well managed,"--for instance after
instance came floating back to the wife's mind, in which he had against
his own judgment given way to her. "So that is the way to manage him.
Now our Lord King Henry requires entirely different handling."
That was true enough. While Earl Hubert always had a will of his own,
and knew what it was (though he did not always get it), King Henry had
no will, and never knew what it was until somebody else told him.
"I am afraid, Lady, I don't understand the management of men," said
Margaret, with a little laugh and blush.
"Thou wilt learn in time, my dear. Thou art rather too fond of saying
all thou meanest. That is not wise--for a woman. Of course a man ought
to tell his wife every thing. But there is no need for a wife always to
be chattering to her husband: she must have her little secrets, and he
ought to respect them. Now, as to Sir Richard, I can see as well as
possible the kind of management he will require; thou must quietly
suggest ideas to him, gently and diffidently, as if thou wert desirous
of his opinion: but whenever he takes them up, mind and always let him
think he is getting his own way. He has a strong will, against which a
foolish woman would just run full tilt, and spoil every thing. A wise
one will quietly get her own way, and let him fancy he has got his.
That is thy work, Magot."
Margaret shook her bright head with a laugh. Such work as that was not
at all in her line.
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