One sometimes sees launched into a family circle a child of so
different a nature from all the rest, that it might seem as if, like
an aërolite, he had fallen out of another sphere.
OLDTOWN FOLKS.
[Sidenote: Child’s intensity.]
In childhood the passions move with a simplicity of action unknown
to any other period of life, and a child’s hatred and a child’s
revenge have an intensity of bitterness entirely unalloyed by moral
considerations; and when a child is without an object of affection
and feels itself unloved, its whole vigor of being goes into the
channels of hate.
* * * * *
[Sidenote: Child instinct.]
That instinctive sense by which children and dogs learn the
discerning of spirits.
* * * * *
[Sidenote: Childish antipathies.]
Among the many unexplained and inexplicable woes of childhood
are its bitter antagonisms, so perfectly powerless, but often so
very decided, against certain of the grown people who control it.
Perhaps some of us may remember respectable, well-meaning people,
with whom in our mature years we live in perfect amity, but who in
our childhood appear to us bitter enemies. Children are remarkably
helpless in this respect, because they cannot choose their company
and surroundings as grown people can; and are sometimes entirely in
the power of those with whom their natures are so unsympathetic that
they may almost be said to have a constitutional aversion to them.
* * * * *
[Sidenote: Getting used to the world.]
Nobody that has not suffered from such causes can tell the amount
of torture that a child of a certain nervous formation undergoes in
the mere process of getting accustomed to his body, to the physical
forces of life, and to the ways and doings of that world of grown-up
people who have taken possession of the earth before him, and are
using it, and determined to go on using it, for their own behoof and
convenience, in spite of his childish efforts to push in his little
individuality, and seize his little portion of existence. He is at
once laid hold upon by the older majority as an instrument to work
out their views of what is fit and proper for himself and themselves;
and if he proves a hard-working or creaking instrument, has the
further capability of being rebuked and chastened for it.
* * * * *
[Sidenote: Quiet children.]
I was one of those children who are all ear,—dreamy listeners, who
brood over all that they hear, without daring to speak of it.
* * * * *
[Sidenote: Individuality in children.]
He was one of those children who retreat into themselves and make a
shield of quietness and silence in the presence of many people, while
Tina, on the other hand, was electrically excited, waxed brilliant
in color, and rattled and chattered with as fearless confidence as a
cat-bird.
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