Free Opinions, Freely Expressed on Certain Phases of Modern Social Life and ConductCorelli, Marie
Religion
Free Opinions, Freely Expressed on Certain Phases of Modern Social Life and Conduct
Corelli, Marie
English essays -- 20th century; Great Britain -- Social life and customs -- 20th century
and are thereby able to recognize its appearance, its meaning, and its
mission, and who know the mischief wrought by the poison it exhales,
will pray for a Storm!
“Come but the direst storm and stress that Fate
Can bring upon us in its darkest hour,
Then will the realm awake, however late,
From the warm sloth in which we yawn and cower,
And pass our sordid lives in greed, or mate
With animal delights in luxury’s bower;
Then will the ancient virtues bloom anew,
And love of country quench the love of gold;
Then will the mocking spirits that imbue
Our daily converse fade like misty cold
When the clear sunshine permeates the blue;
Men will be manly as in days of old,
And scorn the base delights that sink them down
Into the languid waters where they drown!”
THE DEATH OF HOSPITALITY
There is an old song, a very old song, the refrain of which runs
thus: “’Twas merry in the hall, when the beards wagged all, We shall
never see the like again, again!--We shall never see the like again!”
Whether there was anything particularly hilarious in the wagging of
beards we may not feel able to determine, but there is unquestionably
a vague sense of something festive and social conveyed in the quaint
lines. We feel, without knowing why, that it was, it _must_ have
been, “merry in the hall,” at the distant period alluded to,--while
at the present time we are daily and hourly made painfully aware
that whether it be in hall, drawing-room or extensive “reception
gallery,” the merriment formerly so well sung and spoken of exists
no longer. The Harp that once through Tara’s Halls--no!--I mean the
Beards that once wagged in the Hall, wag no more. Honest laughter has
given place to the nanny-goat sniggering bleat now common to polite
society, and understood to be the elegantly trained and “cultured”
expression of mirth. The warm hand-shake has, in a very great measure,
degenerated into the timorous offer of two or three clammy fingers
extended dubiously, as with a fear of microbes. And Hospitality,
large-hearted, smiling, gracious Hospitality, is dead and wrapped in
its grave-clothes, waiting in stiff corpse-like state for its final
burial. Public dinners, public functions of all kinds,--in England at
any rate,--are merely so many funeral feasts in memory of the great
defunct virtue. Its spirit has fled,--and there is no calling it
back again. The art of entertaining is lost,--together with the art
of conversation. And when our so-called “friends” are “at home,” we
are often more anxious to find reasons for declining rather than for
accepting their invitations, simply because we know that there is no
real “at home” in it, but merely an “out-of-home” arrangement, in which
a mixed crowd of people are asked to stand and swelter in an uneasy
crush on staircases and in drawing-rooms, pretending to listen to music
which they can scarcely hear, and scrambling for tea which is generally
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