Harper's New Monthly Magazine, No. IX.—February, 1851.—Vol. II.Various
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Harper's New Monthly Magazine, No. IX.—February, 1851.—Vol. II.
Various
American literature -- Periodicals; Civilization -- Periodicals; Culture -- Periodicals
Mrs. R. met me this time with a load of care upon her brow. She was
often anxious-looking, for even her world, light and trifling as it was,
had its burdens, and at this time she seemed overwhelmed by them. Who
could wonder at it? Next to the great change which removes a beloved
child from the embraces of her parents to an unseen world, there is
nothing in solemnity equal to that tie which transfers the guardianship
of her happiness to a stranger. When a daughter marries, her parents are
deprived of the first place in her love and reverence, and bereaved for
ever of the daily companionship, which, in the decline of life, becomes
so precious a solace and so dear a joy. What a tremendous responsibility
there is in the choice of the person who is to be intrusted with so
costly a deposit, and in whose favor are relinquished such valued
rights? How few are the men whose characters present a combination of
qualities, which under such circumstances, could satisfy the fears and
misgivings of a parent's love!
Something of all this I could not help expressing. Mrs. R. replied that
they had perfect confidence in Mr. Lennox; it was in every respect a
most unexceptionable match; there was a splendid income to begin with,
and every prospect of an immense fortune in a few years, and an
excellent position in society; as to moral character, and that sort of
thing, of course, all was perfectly satisfactory. "What you say about
parting with one's children," continued she, and here she applied her
exquisite pocket-handkerchief to her eyes, "is very true--it _is_ very
hard to part with Amy; but," she philosophically added, "it must be so,
so it is no use grieving about it."
And she did not grieve about it any more, but became very fluent upon
other grievances, which this affair had brought upon her; and now I
began to perceive that the true causes of anxiety were something widely
different from those which I had anticipated.
"I am worried to death," said my poor sister-in-law; "every thing rests
with me. I have all the arrangements to make, and no one to consult
with, for Mr. R. takes no interest in these matters, and as to Amy, she
is a perfect child. Louisa, too, has become so dull and indifferent, she
is of no use at all. I miss Fanny beyond every thing; her wedding was
comparatively no trouble, for she helped me to think; but now I am
positively miserable lest all should not go off as it ought to do."
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