Human nature and the social orderCooley, Charles Horton
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Human nature and the social order
Cooley, Charles Horton
Individualism; Social psychology; Sociology
sentiments are altruistic in the sense that they involve reference to
another person; few are so in the sense that they exclude the self. The
idea of a division on this line appears to flow from a vague presumption
that personal ideas must have a separateness answering to that of
material bodies.
I do not mean to deny or depreciate the fact of personal opposition; it
is real and most important, though it does not rest upon any such
essential and, as it were, material separateness as the common way of
thinking implies. At a given moment personal symbols may stand for
different and opposing tendencies; thus the missionary may be urging me
to contribute to his cause, and, if he is skilful, the impulses he
awakens will move me in that direction; but if I think of my wife and
children and the summer outing I had planned to give them from my
savings, an opposite impulse appears. And in all such cases the very
fact of opposition and the attention thereby drawn to the conflicting
impulses gives emphasis to them, so that common elements are overlooked
and the persons in the imagination seem separate and exclusive.
In such cases, however, the harmonizing or moralizing of the situation
consists precisely in evoking or appealing to the common element in the
apparently conflicting personalities, that is to some sentiment of
justice or right. Thus I may say to myself, “I can afford a dollar, but
ought not, out of consideration for my family, to give more,” and may be
able to imagine all parties accepting this view of the case.
Opposition between one’s self and someone else is also a very real
thing; but this opposition, instead of coming from a separateness like
that of material bodies, is, on the contrary, dependent upon a measure
of community between one’s self and the disturbing other, so that the
hostility between one’s self and a social person may always be described
as hostile sympathy. And the sentiments connected with opposition, like
resentment, pertain neither to myself, considered separately, nor to the
symbol of the other person, but to ideas including both. I shall discuss
these matters at more length in subsequent chapters; the main thing here
is to note that personal opposition does not involve mechanical
separateness, but arises from the emphasis of inconsistent elements in
ideas having much in common.
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