Sexism; Women -- Social and moral questions; Women -- Social conditions
But Ellis’ faulty inference is still based upon a sound observation, to
wit, that the sort of man capable of transmitting high talents to a son
is ordinarily a man who does not have a son at all, at least in
wedlock, until he has advanced into middle life. The reasons which
impel him to yield even then are somewhat obscure, but two or three of
them, perhaps, may be vaguely discerned. One lies in the fact that
every man, whether of the first-class or of any other class, tends to
decline in mental agility as he grows older, though in the actual range
and profundity of his intelligence he may keep on improving until he
collapses into senility. Obviously, it is mere agility of mind, and not
profundity, that is of most value and effect in so tricky and deceptive
a combat as the duel of sex. The aging man, with his agility gradually
withering, is thus confronted by women in whom it still luxuriates as a
function of their relative youth. Not only do women of his own age
aspire to ensnare him, but also women of all ages back to adolescence.
Hence his average or typical opponent tends to be progressively younger
and younger than he is, and in the end the mere advantage of her youth
may be sufficient to tip over his tottering defences. This, I take it,
is why oldish men are so often intrigued by girls in their teens. It is
not that age calls maudlinly to youth, as the poets would have it; it
is that age is no match for youth, especially when age is male and
youth is female. The case of the late Henrik Ibsen was typical. At
forty Ibsen was a sedate family man, and it is doubtful that he ever so
much as glanced at a woman; all his thoughts were upon the composition
of “The League of Youth,” his first social drama. At fifty he was
almost as preoccupied; “A Doll’s House” was then hatching. But at
sixty, with his best work all done and his decline begun, he succumbed
preposterously to a flirtatious damsel of eighteen, and thereafter,
until actual insanity released him, he mooned like a provincial actor
in a sentimental melodrama. Had it not been, indeed, for the fact that
he was already married, and to a very sensible wife, he would have run
off with this flapper, and so made himself publicly ridiculous.
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