Women -- Canada; Women -- Conduct of life; Women -- History; Women -- Social and moral questions; Women -- Social conditions
Then there is the old-country reverence for men, of which many a mother
has been guilty, which exalts the boys of the family far above the
girls, and brings home to the latter, in many, many ways, the grave
mistake of having been born a woman. Many little girls have carried
the sore thought in their hearts from their earliest recollection.
They find out, later, that women's work is taken for granted. A farmer
will allow his daughter to work many weary unpaid years, and when she
gets married he will give her "a feather bed and a cow," and feel that
her claim upon him has been handsomely met. The gift of a feather bed
is rather interesting, too, when you consider that it is the daughter
who has raised the geese, plucked them, and made the bed-tick. But
"father" gives it to her just the same. The son, for a corresponding
term of service, gets a farm.
There was a rich farmer once, who died possessed of three very fine
farms of three hundred and twenty acres each. He left a farm to each
of his three sons. To his daughter Martha, a woman of forty years of
age, the eldest of the family, who had always stayed at home, and
worked for the whole family--he left a cow and one hundred dollars.
The wording of the will ran: "To my dear daughter, Martha, I leave the
sum of one hundred dollars, and one cow named 'Bella.'"
How would you like to be left at forty years of age, with no training
and very little education, facing the world with one hundred dollars
and one cow, even if she were named "Bella"?
To the poor old mother, sixty-five years of age, who had worked far
harder than her husband, who had made butter, and baked bread, and
sewed carpet rags, and was now bent and broken, and with impaired
sight, he left: "her keep" with one of the boys!
How would you like to be left with "your keep" even with one of your
own children? Keep! It is exactly what the humane master leaves to an
old horse. When the old lady heard the will read which so generously
provided for her "keep," she slipped away without a word. People
thought it was her great grief at losing such a kind husband which made
her pine and droop. But it wasn't. It was the loss of her
independence. Her son and his family thought it strange that "Grandma"
did not care to go to church any more. Of course her son never thought
of giving her collection or money to give to the funds of the church,
and Grandma did not ask. She sat in her corner, and knit stockings for
her son's children; another pitiful little broken bit of human wreckage
cast up by the waves of the world. In two months Grandma had gone to
the house of many mansions, where she was no longer beholden to anyone
for "keep"--for God is more merciful than man!
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