With the Renaissance, and the impetus it gave at that time to the study
of Greek and Roman models, the exclusive domination of Christianity and
the Church was broken. A literature of friendship along classic lines
began to spring up. Montaigne (b. 1533) was saturated with classic
learning. His essays were doubtless largely formed upon the model of
Plutarch. His friendship with Stephen de la Boëtie was evidently of a
romantic and absorbing character. It is referred to in the following
passage by William Hazlitt; and the description of it occupies a large
part of Montaigne’s Essay on Friendship.
“The most important event of his counsellor’s life at Bordeaux
was the friendship which he there formed with Stephen de la
Boëtie, an affection which makes a streak of light in modern
biography almost as beautiful as that left us by Lord Brook and
Sir Philip Sydney. Our essayist and his friend esteemed, before
they saw, each other. La Boëtie had written a little work[8] in
which Montaigne recognised sentiments congenial with his own,
and which indeed bespeak a soul formed in the mould of classic
times. Of Montaigne, la Boëtie had also heard accounts, which
made him eager to behold him, and at length they met at a large
entertainment given by one of the magistrates of Bordeaux. They
saw and loved, and were thenceforward all in all to each other.
The picture that Montaigne in his essays draws of this friendship
is in the highest degree beautiful and touching; nor does la
Boëtie’s idea of what is due to this sacred bond betwixt soul
and soul fall far short of the grand perception which filled the
exalted mind of his friend.... Montaigne married at the age of
33, but, as he informs us, not of his own wish or choice. ‘Might
I have had my wish,’ says he, ‘I would not have married Wisdom
herself if she would have had me.’” _Life of Montaigne_, _by Wm.
Hazlitt_.
[Sidenote: _Montaigne on Friendship_]
The following is from Montaigne’s Essay, bk. 1, ch. xxvii:—
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