Is it I? A book for every man.Storer, Horatio Robinson
Science
Is it I? A book for every man.
Storer, Horatio Robinson
Sexual ethics
To this I reply that some men are brutes. Even among husbands,
pledged truly to love and cherish those who generally give far more
real affection than they receive, there exist the veriest satyrs,
eroto-maniacs, madmen. Knowing that they are endangering their wife’s
life, that they are causing her health seriously to suffer, or to be
ruined, they still persist in their demands for what at the best is
but a momentary gratification, and when begrudged, becomes the most
selfish and the basest of all pleasures; and this they do in the face
of remonstrance, entreaties, tears. Many a married man has, as I
have said, virtually committed a rape upon his wife: though the crime
may be unrecognized as such by the law, it is none the less this in
fact, the element of consent having been wholly wanting.
There are others of our number, who, kind at heart and not so
selfish, equally err through ignorance of the real nature of the
case, or from inconsiderateness. It is only of late that even
physicians are awakening to the importance of the manifold special
diseases of women, and to the very existence of many of them. It
is often asked if these diseases are not a new thing, if they have
not indeed wholly sprung up during the present century. This may be
true to a certain extent, in consequence of certain variations from
the normal standard of living; but there is no doubt, on the other
hand, that hosts of women used to die of disease, then undetected
or wholly misunderstood, that is now readily cured. Among these
diseases, all of which are enshrouded by the veil of a woman’s
natural delicacy, but which, involving as they do the very existence
of social life, come directly within the physician’s province, and
that also of simple common sense,—among them there is a very large
class, closely related to the subject of our present inquiry, those
occasioned or aggravated by excessive sexual indulgence. I shall,
of course, refrain from speaking more explicitly than I have now
done, but will merely say that we may all of us be thankful that our
development was carried to the positive extreme, and that we are not
women. They are subject to an immense variety of disease, of which,
from personal experience, we know nothing, and it is often attended
by the most exquisite suffering. This they are prone to conceal;
far from generally exaggerating it, they endeavor to undervalue it,
and suffer, with a fortitude that we could but feebly emulate, in
silence. There are exceptions to this statement, it is true, but
they are still but exceptions, and so prove the rule. Even where
such do exist, there is usually present great nervous excitement or
exaltation, which is often much more difficult to endure than direct
physical pain. Far from ridiculing or chiding these sufferers, they
deserve and should receive our hearty sympathy, which is by no
means sure, as it is so commonly supposed to do, of evoking a fresh
accession of the malady. Many a heart is broken by the sneer of
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