Is it I? A book for every man.Storer, Horatio Robinson
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Is it I? A book for every man.
Storer, Horatio Robinson
Sexual ethics
In advising, as I am compelled to do, moderation, that golden mean,
wherein lie the highest duty and the truest happiness, it is
necessary that I refer to a still additional class of husbands—those
who, endeavoring to be reasonable in their demands, yet manage,
for one reason or another, to keep their wives in the state of
gestation the greater part of the time. From such, physicians often
hear complaints; but not so often as from their consorts. Extremes,
it is true, are dangerous: it is almost sure to be detrimental to
a woman living in wedlock to intentionally continue sterile: it is
frequently depressing to a woman’s health to be allowed no interval
of rest between her pregnancies. This fact, however, affords no
excuse, as it is constantly constrained to do, for preventing
impregnation or inducing a miscarriage. The remedy lies often in
the strictest continence, and in continence alone; for whatever
care be used as to the observance of certain times and seasons,—and
such is now the popular knowledge of physiology, that even little
boys and girls know at what times conception is, and at what times
it is not, probable,—accidents will sometimes occur. Ova, it is
true, are probably only disengaged from the ovary at the menstrual
period; but these in exceptional cases may be, and undoubtedly
often are, retained for a longer time than usual in a place and
condition favorable to impregnation. Moreover, while nursing women,
as is generally supposed, do not often conceive until after the
re-establishment of the catamenia, still they sometimes seem to do
so; the error probably being one of observation, and either from a
colorless leucorrhœa having taken the place of the usual sanguineous
discharge, or from the latter having been just about to show itself,
and having been suppressed, as an effect, by impregnation.
However this may be, it is clearly the husband’s duty to care for
his wife rather than for himself. Every married woman, save in very
exceptional cases, which should only be allowed to be such by the
decision of a competent physician, every married woman, until near
the so-called turn of life, should occasionally bear a child; not as
a duty to the community merely, nor a compliment to her husband, nor
even an additional bond of union between him and herself, but as the
best means of insuring her own permanent good health. How frequently
should this be? Usually the interval should be from two to two and a
half or three years, so as to allow a sufficient time for nursing, so
important both for the welfare of the child and its mother, and an
interval of subsequent rest. Did women half appreciate the importance
of lactation as a means, by establishing for a sufficiently long
period a tendency of the circulation towards the breasts and away
from the womb, of averting many of the common varieties of uterine
disease, fashion in this matter would have fewer votaries.
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