Good temper is a sign that the different powers of the soul are working
in harmony.--For instance, the atmosphere is well tempered when it is
neither too hot nor too cold, neither too dry nor too moist, having
neither too much electricity nor too little. Then the weather is
called fine. It is a pleasure to live. When the weather is bad, the
balance of the elements is broken, and life is disagreeable and
unpleasant. The body is well tempered when the nervous system and the
blood and the nutritive system all work in due harmony. When these
three great constituents of the body are well balanced against each
other, the result is health. The body is not well tempered in a
student who takes no exercise, and where everything goes to feed the
brain; nor in a pugilist in training, where everything goes to feed the
muscles. The result is disease. We all know the musical instrument
called the harp. All the strings are tuned into perfect harmony. If
there is a false note struck, that is a sign to the musician that there
is something wrong, and that the instrument needs to be tuned. The
discord is a symptom, that some cords are out of order. So, bad temper
is a sign that some string in our moral constitution is out of harmony
and needs to be tuned.
Good temper can be acquired.--It is the result of culture. There are
two things often confounded with it--(_a_) good nature and (_b_) good
humor. Good nature is something born with us--an easy, contented
disposition, and a tendency to take things quietly and pleasantly. We
inherit it. There is little merit in possessing it. Good humor is the
result of pleasant surroundings and agreeable circumstances. A
good-humored man is so when everything goes right; when things go
wrong, his good humor departs and bad humor takes its place. But good
temper results from training and self-control--keeping constant watch
over our passions and feelings, and above all being in constant harmony
with God; for he who is at peace with God is at peace with man, and
will keep the "even tenor of his way."
There are various signs or forms of ill-temper that may be adverted to.
One form of ill-temper is irritability.--We perhaps know what it is to
have a tooth where the nerve is exposed. Everything that touches it
sends a thrill of pain through us. Some people get into a moral state
corresponding to that. The least thing puts them out, vexes them,
throws them into a disagreeable frame of mind. When one gets into that
state, he should feel that there is something wrong with him--something
is off the balance, some nerve is exposed. He had better look to it
and go off to the dentist.
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