Light and Peace: Instructions for devout souls to dispel their doubts and allay their fearsQuadrupani, Carlo Giuseppe
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Light and Peace: Instructions for devout souls to dispel their doubts and allay their fears
Quadrupani, Carlo Giuseppe
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The literal and exact fulfilment of the evangelical precept is often
found impracticable. How, we say, is it possible to have for all men
indiscriminately that extreme sensibility we feel for everything that
touches us individually, that constant solicitude for our spiritual or
temporal interests, that delicacy of feeling that we reserve for
ourselves and for certain objects specially dear to us?—And yet it is
literally _au pied de la lettre_, that our Lord’s precept should be
observed. What then is to be done? An answer will be found in the
following passage from Fénelon, and we shall see that it is not a
question of exaggerating the love of one’s neighbor, but of moderating
self-love, and thus making both the one and the other alike subordinate
to the love of God:
“To love our neighbor as ourselves does not mean that we should have for
him that intense feeling of affection that we have for ourselves, but
simply that we wish for him, and from the motive of charity, what we wish
for ourselves. Pure and genuine love, love having for its sole end the
object beloved, should be reserved for God alone, and to bestow it
elsewhere is a violation of a divine right.”*
5. But although it is forbidden us to show hatred or to entertain it
voluntarily against the wicked and those who have offended us, this is
not meant to prevent us from defending ourselves or taking such
precautions against them as prudence suggests. Christian charity obliges
and disposes us to love our enemies and to be good to them when there is
occasion to do so; but it should not carry us so far as to protect the
wicked, nor leave us without defence against their aggressiveness. It
allows us to be vigilant in guarding against their encroachments, and to
take precautions against their machinations.
6. Always be ready and willing to excuse the faults of your neighbor, and
never put an unfavorable interpretation upon his actions. The same
action, says Saint Francis de Sales, may be looked upon under many
different aspects: a charitable person will ever suppose the best, an
uncharitable one will just as certainly choose the worst.
*“Do not weigh so carefully the sayings and doings of others, but let
your thought of them be simple and good, kindly and affectionate. You
should not exact of your neighbor greater perfection than of yourself,
nor be surprised at the diversity of imperfections; for an imperfection
is not more an imperfection from the fact that it is extravagant and
peculiar.”*
7. It is very difficult for a good christian to become really guilty of
rash judgment, in the true sense of the word,—which is that, without just
reasons or sufficient grounds he forms and pronounces in his own mind in
a positive manner a condemnation of his neighbor. The grave sin of rash
judgment is frequently confounded with suspicion or even simple distrust,
which may be justifiable on much slighter grounds.
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