Miss America; pen and camera sketches of the American girlBlack, Alexander
General
Miss America; pen and camera sketches of the American girl
Black, Alexander
Women -- United States; Women -- United States -- Social conditions
His pretty speeches would amuse her for a little while, but the man
who flatters her nowadays must be a more expert artist to escape the
mortal wound of her ridicule. In a later day compliment undoubtedly
became more of an art, and the dude of the Directoire, whom you might
have found in the quaint drawing-rooms of old Boston, or Philadelphia,
or Georgetown, as well as upon his native soil, was an ingratiating
gallant in many ways. He posed, because Napoleon was making it the
fashion to pose, but he posed well, and he studied the best methods
of saying caressing things without making them nauseatingly sweet.
This art of compliment, of not saying the right thing to the wrong
woman, nor the wrong thing to any woman, reached an interesting
point of development in the contemporaries of Beau Brummel. Possibly
Miss America would have liked a Beau Brummel in an artistic spirit,
and Brummel had, as a spectacle, many traits of gracefulness and
fascination. Her elusiveness would have piqued him and his not too
grovelling deference would have made her think him an entertaining
fellow. His dress was elegant without effeminacy, his hat was the most
extraordinary yet devised by the ingenuity of man--which itself should
be a bond of sympathy. But hats pass away, and beaux melt among the
hazy images in the tapestry of time.
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Yet they are always with us. Every age has blamed its beaux for wanting
the true gallantry of beaux in the past. We all have heard Miss America
say, rather petulantly, that the days of chivalry are gone. Perhaps
they are; perhaps our men give too little attention to the graces of
life. But let us hope that the modern man is not always as satire
paints him, that for the little shams of chivalry he has substituted
some real essence of an even deeper homage.
And we must not forget, in considering courtship, that she, too, though
she may not have greatly changed in fact, has produced an effect quite
as puzzling as the change in man. One of the German painters, possibly
under the influence of Sudermann, has shown the modern girl, assisted,
and possibly instigated by Cupid, paring hearts with a knife. But this
is an old partnership--Cupid & Co., Limited. I cannot say what sign the
firm puts up over the door in Germany. In this country it certainly
should read: “Hearts extracted without pain.”
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