Miss America; pen and camera sketches of the American girlBlack, Alexander
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Miss America; pen and camera sketches of the American girl
Black, Alexander
Women -- United States; Women -- United States -- Social conditions
It is natural enough that the unmarried woman rather than the unmarried
man should be the particular mark for attack. There are obvious reasons
why woman’s resentment of the unmarried man should be concealed or
disguised. Woman, outside the resolution committee at a suffrage
convention, cannot gracefully seem to resent an impairment of the
selecting instinct in man. Even though she were quite securely removed
from the possibility of social commiseration she always would be in
danger of appearing to speak with something less than strictly abstract
feeling. She knows her fundamental limitations in the casting of
missiles, and the boomerang of personalities is least to her liking. To
her, natural selection may begin to wear the appearance of a huge joke,
an immense, fantastic contradiction. “This,” she may say, “is natural,
but it is not selection.” Under the circumstances who can blame her
if she resort to a paraphrase of evolution and bewilder man by an
unnatural rejection?
Man’s resentment is more vocal, and so often does it seem to be
touched with real asperity that we well may feel that he has begun to
contemplate the situation with more than a languid interest. I suppose
there is a fair question as to who began it. Gallantry dictates that a
man should neither admit nor declare that he did. The excitements of
scientific controversy doubtless often cause the masculine debater to
overlook this obligation. Certainly it often is beyond all dispute that
the American girl has succeeded, with or without design, in affecting
man with a definite awe, and it is claimed that, in certain quarters
at least, this awe has resulted in making him afraid to marry her,
which, if it were true, would have to be regarded as a calamity of the
profoundest moment. To admit the existence of such a condition would be
deeply humiliating, since it must belittle both man and woman, though
it should be admitted that woman would appear to better advantage as a
creature that had frightened man than as one that had ceased to attract
him.
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