I shall pass over the first ten years of her retirement, as they
furnish nothing more than the unwearied attentions she took in
employing every means for the instruction of her son, daughter, and
ward. I shall only observe, that the regularity of her conduct gained
her the esteem of every one. She was a friend to virtue under any
denomination, and an enemy to vice under any colour. She established
an institution for the provision of the infirm and destitute. This
was constructed on that wise and excellent plan, that excludes the
undeserving from participating in the charity, and extends only
to those who, from their real necessities, are proper objects of
benevolence.--At that period she was advised to take her son to
the capital. But she wisely considered that the education which
commonly attends high birth or great fortune, very often corrupts or
sophisticates nature; whilst in those of the middle state she remains
unmixed and unaltered. I have somewhere read; _Jamais les grandes
passions et les grandes vertus ne sont nées, & ne se sont nourries que
dans le silence & la retrait. L'homme en societé perd tous ses traits
distinctifs: ce n'est plus qu' une froide copie de ce qui l'environne.
Voilà pour quelle raison on nous accuse de manquer de caractere:
nous ne vivons pas assez avec nous-mêmes, & nous empruntons trop des
autres_.
The duchess procured for her son's tutor, a very respectable man,
who was at the utmost pains in forming his morals, and improving his
understanding; while so many of the degenerate nobility in great
cities are trifling away their time and their fortunes, in idle
dissipations, in sensual enjoyments, or irrational diversions, and
making mere amusement the great business of their lives. Happiness
and merit are the result, not so much of truth and knowledge, as
of attaining integrity and moderation. Many ridiculed the duchess's
plan of education, of debarring herself from those pleasures and
enjoyments her youth, rank, and beauty so well intitled her to: But
she often observed it would be the height of imbecility to judge of
her felicity by the imagination of others; considering nothing under
the title of happiness, but what she wished to be in the possession
of, or what was the result of her own voluntary choice. Women of the
world counteract their intention, in so assiduously courting pleasure,
as it only makes it fly further from them. They will not understand,
that pleasure is to be purchased, and that industry is the price of
it; to reject the one, is to renounce the other. They are to learn
that pleasure, which they idolize, must now and then be _quitted_ in
order to be _regained_. They have tried in vain to perpetuate it,
by attempting variety and refinement. Their fertile invention has
multiplied the objects of amusement, and created new ones every day,
without making any real acquisition. All these fantastic pleasures,
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