My Queen: A Weekly Journal for Young Women. Issue 2, October 6, 1900: Marion Marlowe's Courage; or, A Brave Girl's Struggle for Life and HonorSheldon, Lurana
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My Queen: A Weekly Journal for Young Women. Issue 2, October 6, 1900: Marion Marlowe's Courage; or, A Brave Girl's Struggle for Life and Honor
Sheldon, Lurana
Dime novels -- Periodicals; Popular literature -- Periodicals; Young women -- Periodicals
“You have been so helpful in your answers to others who have written
you for advice that I know you will help me out with my trouble.
“We have been married two years, and I had my husband’s attention
until recently. Now he seems to find more pleasure in chatting with
other women when we spend an evening out than he does in talking
with me. I have no idea that he is unfaithful, but I want him all to
myself. How can I make myself more interesting?
“Mrs. Alice M.”
We would suggest that you let your affection for your husband work out
its own salvation. You will surely have cause to congratulate yourself
more if he prefers you after seeing other women than if he saw only
you. It is no compliment to a woman to stick to her because she is the
only woman in sight. If your husband talks with other women and yet
gives you no cause to doubt him you have the best possible proof that
you are more attractive to him than any one else.
We think that you are probably over-jealous, and that your husband only
fulfills the requirements of society in making himself agreeable to the
women he meets. You should do exactly the same as he does—make the most
of others’ company when you meet them at any social function, and be
more than happy when you and your husband are alone together and can
exchange those mutual loving confidences that are so gratifying.
“I have read with interest your letters of advice to others and hope
that you will be kind enough to advise me in my trouble. My husband
earns fifteen dollars a week, and after our expenses are paid there
are four dollars left, out of which I only receive one for spending
money. As I work very hard to economize for him, do you not think that
he should divide more evenly? I have asked him, and he says that one
dollar a week pin money is enough for any woman.
“Mrs. A. H. B.”
We are very sorry indeed to hear that these troubles exist between you
and your husband. The question of finances has broken up many a family.
We can only advise you to reason with your husband and try to convince
him that his own dignity requires that his wife should be possessed of
sufficient funds to enable her to escape humiliation when in company
with other women whose husbands are in similar financial circumstances.
“I have read your letters to other young women and take the liberty
of asking you to kindly answer this: I became engaged to a young
man about six months ago. He gave me a beautiful engagement ring of
sapphires and diamonds. Now I want to break the engagement and do not
want to give him back the ring. Would it be mean in me to keep it? I
do not think he will ask for it.”
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