Our Family Affairs, 1867-1896Benson, E. F. (Edward Frederic)
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Our Family Affairs, 1867-1896
Benson, E. F. (Edward Frederic)
Benson family
He went back that January to Winchester, and Arthur to Eton, and one
day, early in February he had a sudden attack of giddiness, and then
followed an attack of meningitis. My father and mother were sent for; he
was then unconscious. Arthur went there from Eton, but my mother decided
that we younger children should not go and instead Miss Bramston came
down to us in Cornwall. The rest I will tell by means of two letters
which my mother wrote to Beth. I found them, after my mother’s death,
forty years after, in a little packet of papers which had belonged to
Beth, and consisted of letters from all of us which she had always kept.
“WINCHESTER,
_Friday_ (Feb. 8, 1878).
DEAREST BETH,
I must write you a few lines to-day. Our dear one is no better at
all. Nothing can be done for him but to watch him and to give
nourishment and to pray and trust in God. Everything possible is
done for him; he has two nurses, day and night. We go in and out of
his room from time to time. He lies quite peacefully, mostly
sleeping, and evidently quite unconscious of any pain. There is no
sign of pain about his face. He knows us now and then, we think,
but he does not speak. He takes a little nourishment from time to
time, but with difficulty. Sir William Jenner has been sent for,
though there does not seem anything he can do.
Dearest Beth, it is such a comfort to think that you are with those
dear ones at home. I don’t know what they would do without you, or
how we could bear to think of leaving them unless they had you. We
are both quite sure that it is better they should not come. They
could not be with him, and it is no use their hearing details. We
ought to and must keep before their young minds just the Love of
God, whether He shews it in giving our darling back to our prayers,
or in taking to Himself so beautiful and holy a life.
But we must not, and do not give up hope. Though as far as man
knows or sees there is nothing to be done, and the doctors dare not
give us hope of recovery, yet just where man is most powerless, God
_does_ work, often, and we continue to pray to Him in hope for our
darling’s restoration. While there is life, we will not despair.
Dearest Beth, God keep you all: the thought of you is such a
comfort to us. Pray yourself continually,--encourage them all to
pray. One of the Psalms to-day begins, ‘I waited patiently for the
Lord, and He inclined unto me, and heard my calling.’
All our heart’s love is with you all always.
Your most loving
MARY BENSON.”
This is the second letter:
“DEAREST FRIEND AND MOTHER BETH,
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