There are male prostitutes also, of the normal sexual type. I do not
allude here to the homosexual males whose mentality shall be considered
in another chapter. By male prostitutes, I mean men who consort with
women, in or out of wedlock, for purely sordid considerations.
=The Pimp= who exploits some prostitute is a prostitute himself, but so
is the man who marries for money or power a woman who does not attract
him sexually. The male prostitute is, if anything, ethically inferior
to the female prostitute.
=Prevention=, rather than any form of cure, may some day solve
the problem of prostitution. Repressive measures are, of course,
a dishonest farce which deceives no one and benefits no one. The
prostitute cannot be reeducated or adapted, for she is a weakling and
the modern world offers to her no equivalent for what she would have
to give up in order to reform. Female children, on the other hand, if
trained properly and made independent, mentally and financially, could
grow up free from the handicaps and the fears which, at the present
day, drive too many girls into adopting the "easiest way."
=Prostitution has no redeeming grace.= It may have saved many
young men from impotence but it has made quite as many impotent thru
venereal infection. Some claim that it has saved many pure wives and
daughters from temptation but it has contributed also thru infection to
making thousands of innocent women sexual invalids.
Prostitution is a maladjustment whose worst sin is perhaps the
maladjustment of married life which it occasions in thousands of cases.
Too many young men, who acquired their sexual experience with
prostitutes solely, imagine that they know and understand women, and
they proceed to treat their life mates as tho the latter were only
slightly different from the unfortunate neurotics they hired to relieve
their sexual cravings. To that sort of experience we owe the horrible
type of the "typical husband" who never misses an opportunity of
reminding his wife of the fact that "she is only a woman."
CHAPTER XIII
VIRGINITY
I am very sceptical when it comes to drawing a clear line of cleavage
between what is typically masculine and what is typically feminine
in behavior, and I believe that many of the so-called fundamental
differences between the sexes are artificial and temporary ones due
to the economic and social pressure which woman has to bear. Even in
the valuation of virginity, it is difficult to say that there is a
masculine attitude and a feminine attitude.
Broadly speaking, we might state however that women, the world over,
are more indifferent to the prematrimonial past of their future
husbands than men are to the purity of their brides.
=Men Experienced in Matters of Love= wield a definite attraction
over all women, whether the latter are willing to admit it or not.
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