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You may think perhaps a Greek knight would have had a lower estimate of
women than this Christian lover. His spiritual subjection to them was
indeed not so absolute; but as regards their own personal character, it
was only because you could not have followed me so easily, that I did not
take the Greek women instead of Shakespeare’s; and instance, for chief
ideal types of human beauty and faith, the simple mother’s and wife’s
heart of Andromache; the divine, yet rejected wisdom of Cassandra; the
playful kindness and simple princess-life of happy Nausicaa; the
housewifely calm of that of Penelope, with its watch upon the sea; the
ever patient, fearless, hopelessly devoted piety of the sister, and
daughter, in Antigone; the bowing down of Iphigenia, lamb-like and
silent; and finally, the expectation of the resurrection, made clear to
the soul of the Greeks in the return from her grave of that Alcestis,
who, to save her husband, had passed calmly through the bitterness of
death.
Now I could multiply witness upon witness of this kind upon you if I had
time. I would take Chaucer, and show you why he wrote a Legend of Good
Women; but no Legend of Good Men. I would take Spenser, and show you how
all his fairy knights are sometimes deceived and sometimes vanquished;
but the soul of Una is never darkened, and the spear of Britomart is
never broken. Nay, I could go back into the mythical teaching of the
most ancient times, and show you how the great people,—by one of whose
princesses it was appointed that the Lawgiver of all the earth should be
educated, rather than by his own kindred;—how that great Egyptian people,
wisest then of nations, gave to their Spirit of Wisdom the form of a
Woman; and into her hand, for a symbol, the weaver’s shuttle; and how the
name and the form of that spirit, adopted, believed, and obeyed by the
Greeks, became that Athena of the olive-helm, and cloudy shield, to faith
in whom you owe, down to this date, whatever you hold most precious in
art, in literature, or in types of national virtue.
But I will not wander into this distant and mythical element; I will only
ask you to give its legitimate value to the testimony of these great
poets and men of the world,—consistent, as you see it is, on this head.
I will ask you whether it can be supposed that these men, in the main
work of their lives, are amusing themselves with a fictitious and idle
view of the relations between man and woman;—nay, worse than fictitious
or idle; for a thing may be imaginary, yet desirable, if it were
possible: but this, their ideal of woman, is, according to our common
idea of the marriage relation, wholly undesirable. The woman, we say, is
not to guide, nor even to think for herself. The man is always to be the
wiser; he is to be the thinker, the ruler, the superior in knowledge and
discretion, as in power.
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