Some Reflections Upon Marriage.: With additions.Astell, Mary
Philosophy
Some Reflections Upon Marriage.: With additions.
Astell, Mary
Marriage; Women -- Social conditions
It is therefore very much a Man’s Interest, that Women should be good
Christians; for in this, as in every other Instance, he who does his
Duty, finds his own Account in it. Duty and true Interest are one and
the same Thing, and he who thinks otherwise is to be pitied for being so
much in the Wrong: But what can be more the Duty of the Head, than to
instruct and improve those who are under Government? She will freely
leave him the quiet Dominion of this World, whose Thoughts and
Expectations are plac’d on the next. A Prospect of Heaven, and that
only, will cure that Ambition which all generous Minds are fill’d with,
not by taking it away, but by placing it on a right Object. She will
discern a Time when her Sex shall be no Bar to the best Employments, the
highest Honour; a Time when that Distinction, now so much us’d to her
Prejudice, shall be no more; but, provided she is not wanting to her
self, her Soul shall shine as bright as the greatest Heroe’s. This is a
true, and indeed, the only Consolation; this makes her a sufficient
Compensation for all the Neglect and Contempt the ill-grounded Customs
of the World throw on her; for all the Injuries brutal Power may do her,
and is a sufficient Cordial to support her Spirits, be her Lot in this
World what it may.
But some sage Persons may, perhaps object, that were Women allow’d to
improve themselves, and not, amongst other Discouragements, driven back
by the wise Jests and Scoffs that are put upon a Woman of Sense or
Learning, a Philosophical Lady, as she is call’d by way of Ridicule;
they would be too wise, and too good for the Men: I grant it, for
vicious and foolish Men. Nor is it to be wonder’d that He is afraid he
should not be able to Govern them were their Understandings improv’d,
who is resolv’d not to take too much Pains with his own. But these, ’tis
to be hoped, are no very considerable Number, the Foolish at least; and
therefore this is so far from being an Argument against Womens
Improvement, that it is a strong one for it, if we do but suppose the
Men to be as capable of Improvement as the Women; but much more, if,
according to Tradition, we believe they have greater Capacities. This,
if any thing, would stir them up to be what they ought, and not permit
them to waste their Time and abuse their Faculties in the Service of
their irregular Appetites and unreasonable Desires, and so let poor
contemptible Women, who have been their Slaves, excel them in all that
is truly excellent. This would make them Blush at employing an immortal
Mind no better than in making Provision for the Flesh to fulfil the
Lusts thereof, since Women, by a wiser Conduct, have brought themselves
to such a Reach of Thought, to such Exactness of Judgment, such
Clearness and Strength of Reasoning, such Purity and Elevation of Mind,
such Command of their Passions, such Regularity of Will and Affection,
and, in a Word, to such a Pitch of Perfection, as the Human Soul is
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