Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
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Among the Eskimos (probably near Smith Sound) "there is no
marriage ceremony further than that the boy is required to carry
off his bride by main force, for even among these blubber-eating
people the woman only saves her modesty by a show of resistance,
although she knows years beforehand that her destiny is sealed
and that she is to become the wife of the man from whose
embraces, when the nuptial day comes, she is obliged by the
inexorable law of public opinion to free herself, if possible, by
kicking and screaming with might and main until she is safely
landed in the hut of her future lord, when she gives up the
combat very cheerfully and takes possession of her new abode. The
betrothal often takes place at a very early period of life and at
very dissimilar ages." Marriage only takes place when the lover
has killed his first seal; this is the test of manhood and
maturity. (J.J. Hayes, _Open Polar Sea_, 1867, p. 432.)
Marriage by "capture" is common in war and raiding in central
Africa. "The women, as a rule," Johnston says, "make no very
great resistance on these occasions. It is almost like playing a
game. A woman is surprised as she goes to get water at the
stream, or when she is on the way to or from the plantation. The
man has only got to show her she is cornered and that escape is
not easy or pleasant and she submits to be carried off. As a
general rule, they seem to accept very cheerfully these abrupt
changes in their matrimonial existence." (Sir H.H. Johnston,
_British Central Africa_, p. 412.)
Among the wild tribes of the Malay Peninsula in one form of
wedding rite the bridegroom is required to run seven times around
an artificial mound decorated with flowers and the emblem of the
people's religion. In the event of the bridegroom failing to
catch the bride the marriage has to be postponed. Among the Orang
Laut, or sea-gipsies, the pursuit sometimes takes the form of a
canoe-race; the woman is given a good start and must be overtaken
before she has gone a certain distance. (W.W. Skeat, _Journal
Anthropological Institute_, Jan.-June, 1902, p. 134; Skeat and
Blagden, _Pagan Races of the Malay_, vol. ii, p. 69 et seq.,
fully discuss the ceremony around the mound.)
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