Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in WomenEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 3: Analysis of the Sexual Impulse; Love and Pain; The Sexual Impulse in Women
Ellis, Havelock
Sex; Sex (Psychology)
Among the Turcomans forays for capturing and enslaving their
Persian neighbors were once habitual. Vambery describes their
"marriage ceremonial when the young maiden, attired in bridal
costume, mounts a high-bred courser, taking on her lap the
carcass of a lamb or goat, and setting off at full gallop,
followed by the bridegroom and other young men of the party, also
on horseback; she is always to strive, by adroit turns, etc., to
avoid her pursuers, that no one approach near enough to snatch
from her the burden on her lap. This game, called _kökbüri_
(green wolf), is in use among all the nomads of central Asia."
(A. Vambery, _Travels in Central Asia_, 1864, p. 323.)
In China, a missionary describes how, when he was called upon to
marry the daughter of a Chinese Christian brought up in native
customs, he was compelled to wait several hours, as the bride
refused to get up and dress until long after the time appointed
for the wedding ceremony, and then only by force. "Extreme
reluctance and dislike and fear are the true marks of a happy and
lively wedding." (A.E. Moule, _New China and Old_, p. 128.)
It is interesting to find that in the Indian art of love a kind
of mock-combat, accompanied by striking, is a recognized and
normal method of heightening tumescence. Vatsyayana has a
chapter "On Various Manners of Striking," and he approves of the
man striking the woman on the back, belly, flanks, and buttocks,
before and during coitus, as a kind of play, increasing as sexual
excitement increases, which the woman, with cries and groans,
pretends to bid the man to stop. It is mentioned that, especially
in southern India, various instruments (scissors, needles, etc.)
are used in striking, but this practice is condemned as barbarous
and dangerous. (_Kama Sutra_, French translation, iii, chapter
v.)
In the story of Aladdin, in the _Arabian Nights_, the bride is
undressed by the mother and the other women, who place her in the
bridegroom's bed "as if by force, and, according to the custom of
the newly married, she pretends to resist, twisting herself in
every direction, and seeking to escape from their hands." (_Les
Mille Nuits_, tr. Mardrus, vol. xi, p. 253.)
It is said that in those parts of Germany where preliminary
_Probenächte_ before formal marriage are the rule it is not
uncommon for a young woman before finally giving herself to a man
to provoke him to a physical struggle. If she proves stronger she
dismisses him; if he is stronger she yields herself willingly.
(W. Henz, "Probenächte," _Sexual-Probleme_, Oct., 1910, p. 743.)
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