Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 6: Sex in Relation to SocietyEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 6: Sex in Relation to Society
Ellis, Havelock
Sex; Sex (Psychology)
At this point we approach one of the difficulties in the way of
sexual enlightenment: the ignorance or unwisdom of the would-be
teachers. This difficulty at present exists both in the home and
the school, while it destroys the value of many manuals written
for the sexual instruction of the young. The mother, who ought to
be the child's confidant and guide in matters of sexual
education, and could naturally be so if left to her own healthy
instincts, has usually been brought up in false traditions which
it requires a high degree of intelligence and character to escape
from; the school-teacher, even if only called upon to give
instruction in natural history, is oppressed by the same
traditions, and by false shame concerning the whole subject of
sex; the writer of manuals on sex has often only freed himself
from these bonds in order to advocate dogmatic, unscientific, and
sometimes mischievous opinions which have been evolved in entire
ignorance of the real facts. As Moll says (Das _Sexualleben des
Kindes_, p. 276), necessary as sexual enlightenment is, we cannot
help feeling a little skeptical as to its results so long as
those who ought to enlighten are themselves often in need of
enlightenment. He refers also to the fact that even among
competent authorities there is difference of opinion concerning
important matters, as, for instance, whether masturbation is
physiological at the first development of the sexual impulse and
how far sexual abstinence is beneficial. But it is evident that
the difficulties due to false tradition and ignorance will
diminish as sound traditions and better knowledge become more
widely diffused.
The girl at puberty is usually less keenly and definitely conscious of her
sexual nature than the boy. But the risks she runs from sexual ignorance,
though for the most part different, are more subtle and less easy to
repair. She is often extremely inquisitive concerning these matters; the
thoughts of adolescent girls, and often their conversation among
themselves, revolve much around sexual and allied mysteries. Even in the
matter of conscious sexual impulse the girl is often not so widely
different from her brother, nor so much less likely to escape the
contamination of evil communications, so that the scruples of foolish and
ignorant persons who dread to "sully her purity" by proper instruction are
exceedingly misplaced.
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