Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 6: Sex in Relation to SocietyEllis, Havelock
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Studies in the Psychology of Sex, Volume 6: Sex in Relation to Society
Ellis, Havelock
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Engelmann, after stating that his experience in America was
similar to Tilt's in England, continues ("The Health of the
American Girl," _Transactions of the Southern Surgical and
Gynæcological Society_, 1890): "To innumerable women has fright,
nervous and emotional excitement, exposure to cold, brought
injury at puberty. What more natural than that the anxious girl,
surprised by the sudden and unexpected loss of the precious
life-fluid, should seek to check the bleeding wound--as she
supposes? For this purpose the use of cold washes and
applications is common, some even seek to stop the flow by a cold
bath, as was done by a now careful mother, who long lay at the
point of death from the result of such indiscretion, and but
slowly, by years of care, regained her health. The terrible
warning has not been lost, and mindful of her own experience she
has taught her children a lesson which but few are fortunate
enough to learn--the individual care during periods of functional
activity which is needful for the preservation of woman's
health."
In a study of one hundred and twenty-five American high school
girls Dr. Helen Kennedy refers to the "modesty" which makes it
impossible even for mothers and daughters to speak to each other
concerning the menstrual functions. "Thirty-six girls in this
high school passed into womanhood with no knowledge whatever,
from a proper source, of all that makes them women. Thirty-nine
were probably not much wiser, for they stated that they had
received some instruction, but had not talked freely on the
matter. From the fact that the curious girl did not talk freely
on what naturally interested her, it is possible she was put off
with a few words as to personal care, and a reprimand for her
curiosity. Less than half of the girls felt free to talk with
their mothers of this most important matter!" (Helen Kennedy,
"Effects of High School Work upon Girls During Adolescence,"
_Pedagogical Seminary_, June, 1896.)
The same state of things probably also prevails in other
countries. Thus, as regards France, Edmond de Goncourt in
_Chérie_ (pp. 137-139) described the terror of his young heroine
at the appearance of the first menstrual period for which she
had never been prepared. He adds: "It is very seldom, indeed,
that women speak of this eventuality. Mothers fear to warn their
daughters, elder sisters dislike confidences with their younger
sisters, governesses are generally mute with girls who have no
mothers or sisters."
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