The most serious enemies of the public schools among well-to-do people
appear to be women. Many a man, alive to the importance of educating
his sons in conformity with the spirit of our Constitution, would like
to send his boys to a public school, but is deterred by his wife. A
mother accustomed to the refinements of modern civilization is apt to
shrink from sending her fleckless darling to consort, and possibly
become the boon companion or bosom friend, of a street waif.
She urges the danger of contamination, both physical and moral, and
is only too glad to discover an excuse for refusing to yield. “Would
you like to have your precious boy sit side by side with a little
negro?” I was asked one day, in horrified accents, by a well-to-do
American mother; and I have heard many fears expressed by others that
their offspring would learn vice, or contract disease, through daily
association with the children of the mass. It is not unjust to state
that the average well-to-do mother is gratified when the public school,
to which her sons would otherwise be sent, is so unsatisfactory that
their father’s patriotism is overborne by other considerations. All
theories of government or humanity are lost sight of in her desire to
shelter her boys, and the simplest way to her seems to be to set them
apart from the rest of creation, instead of taking pains to make sure
that they are suitably taught and protected side by side with the other
children of the community.
Excellent as many of our private schools are, it is doubtful if either
the morals are better, or the liability to disease is less, among the
children who attend them than at a public school of the best class. To
begin with, the private schools in our cities are eagerly patronized by
that not inconsiderable class of parents who hope or imagine that the
social position of their children is to be established by association
with the children of influential people. Falsehood, meanness, and
unworthy ambitions are quite as dangerous to character, when the little
man who suggests them has no patches on his breeches, as when he has,
and unfortunately there are no outward signs on the moral nature,
like holes in trousers, to serve as danger signals to our darlings.
Then again, those of us who occupy comfortable houses in desirable
localities, will generally find on investigation that the average of
the class of children which attend the public school in such a district
is much superior to what paternal or maternal fancy has painted. In
such a district the children of the ignorant emigrant class are not
to be found in large numbers. The pupils consist mainly of the rank
and file of the native American population, whose tendencies and
capacities for good have always been, and continue to be, the basis of
our strength as a people. There is no need that a mother with delicate
sensibilities should send her son into the slums in order to obtain for
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