The Basis of Social Relations: A Study in Ethnic PsychologyBrinton, Daniel G. (Daniel Garrison)
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The Basis of Social Relations: A Study in Ethnic Psychology
Brinton, Daniel G. (Daniel Garrison)
Ethnopsychology; Sociology
_(c) Abstention from Marriage._—Mr. Galton has pointed out with great
force the injury worked by sacerdotal celibacy in the history of
European civilisation. The commendation of the single life in man or
woman as “the better part” has been by no means confined to certain
sects of Christianity. Long before that religion started, this sacrifice
was enjoined on the priests of Cybele, the virgins of Vesta, the
Egyptian ministrants, and many other officials in Old World rites; while
in the New World not only were there houses of “nuns” among the Quechuas
of Peru and the Mayas of Yucatan, but the priests in those cults and
even the “medicine men” of rude Northern tribes were frequently vowed to
perpetual and absolute chastity.
In the struggle of modern life, and also in the greater facility for the
pursuit of pleasure, of self-culture or devotion to some cherished
pursuit, the unmarried person has an advantage, and hence it is noted
that marriage is either long delayed or wholly avoided. The division of
a community along narrow social, financial, or religious lines greatly
aids this isolation by narrowing the selection of partners for life.
War, emigration, and the love of adventure prompt the males to desert
remote and quiet localities, leaving the females in the majority and
imbuing the males with a distaste for domestic pursuits. During the
Crusades there were considerable areas in Europe where there was only
one man left to seven women.
Students of psychopathic conditions have pointed out another and
apparently growing cause of indifference to marriage,—that sentiment
called “homosexuality,” an inversion of the sexual instinct toward one’s
own sex. This may be innocent in action and emotion, when it means
merely the preference for friendship in the same gender and a congenital
indifference to sexual feelings; or it may progress to any degree of
monosexual devotion, such as classic tradition attributed to the
characters of Sappho and Heliogabalus.
Whatever the cause which leads to the presence of many old bachelors and
spinsters in a community, it must be condemned by the anthropologist,
because it is certain to bring about mental deterioration of the stock;
and the higher the motive, the more exalted the reason offered for such
abstention, the surer is the deterioration, because it means that the
class capable of such superior motives will be extinguished in the
community.
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