Child development; Infant psychology; Motor ability in children
She was also physically strong, and once or twice in the fourth month
sat quite alone on some one’s lap. I do not count this real sitting
alone, however, for the lap gives under the baby’s weight, and steadies
her a little: one should not record sitting alone till the baby has
balanced successfully on a hard level, the floor or table. But as far
as strength of back was concerned, our baby was now evidently ready to
sit alone.
At this stage the babies of grandpa’s line have always been seated on
the floor in a horse-collar, as befitted farm babies; and this latest
one went into the collar at four months old, like the rest of us in
our day, and spent much of her fifth month sitting there, sucking or
brandishing her rattle, and looking happily about her. It is really a
comfortable seat for a baby not yet quite ready to sit alone. When the
collar is not brand new, one will of course scrub and disinfect it; and
it is the better in any case for a blanket or thick shawl thrown over
it. Also of course, one will never set a baby on the floor without
seeing that all possible drafts, under doors or about loose window
casings, are shut off with shawls and screens. Otherwise, there may be
pneumonia to fight.
I have just spoken of the baby’s boldness. She showed fear now and
then, however. About the middle of the fourth month she cried while a
caller was present, dressed in black, with a large hat. Ten days later
she was quite upset when her father leaned over suddenly, bringing
his face into view from one side. Here were the first eye fears,
considerably later than ear fears.
A still more advanced form of fear appeared two days later. The baby
had waked and cried alone in the dark for some minutes, and when she
was at last taken up, she had evidently become frightened, and was not
easily reassured; she kept leaning toward her mother, and uttering
troubled cries, and as it was some minutes before her mother took her,
she grew more and more disturbed, and finally broke into a wail, and
was soothed with difficulty, and all the evening she was anxious and
easily upset. The next night, waking alone at the same hour, she began
again to cry with the note of fright.
Here was not yet fear in the sense of definite expectation of harm. It
was still purely instinctive, a sort of vague panic, from a sense of
unfamiliarity. The darkness no doubt contributed to this unfamiliarity,
but I do not think there was yet anything that could be called fear of
the dark. It is doubtless, however, in large part from such experiences
that fear of the dark is born; each one leaves its trace in the nervous
system, and associations of terror with darkness and solitude are
quickly formed. In these days of leaving babies to wail themselves to
sleep for the good of their souls, and the convenience of mamma’s going
out evenings, innumerable such associations must be bred--and again the
schoolbooks take the blame when in later days the child proves nervous
and excitable.
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